(Closed) It’s over…

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry.  I’m glad you feel like you made the right decision and I hope you find happiness!

Post # 4
Member
1104 posts
Bumble bee

I’m sorry, sounds like the right decision, isn’t it awful when just because it’s right doesn’t make it easy. Look after yourself 🙂

Post # 5
Member
106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

You did the right thing! You followed your heart and your instincts and that’s all you can do. I was in two long-term relationships that didn’t work out before I found my fiance. And I’m so glad I waited for the right one! Good for you! The more time passes, the better you will feel.

Post # 6
Member
1774 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Hugs!  The right decision often sucks in the short-term.  The hive is here for you!

Post # 7
Member
1897 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Aw Boston, I give you credit for being strong and not settling because it was “comfortable”.   I hope you don’t forget about us, I always liked you.

Post # 8
Member
1120 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

HUGS

It’s a brave thing, what you did. You’re right, he will realize in the future that it was for the best.

Post # 11
Member
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m sorry hunny.  It is a tough thing to go through but like you said, its for the best.  I hope you and he are able to move on soon and enjoy the best things in life!

Post # 13
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh yes, that’s right, I’m dumb today!

Post # 14
Member
1897 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

If you don’t stay, I might go to boston and stand on street corners stopping every girl that walks by who looks like your avatar.  My sister lives in Brookline…I have connections.  😉

Post # 16
Member
1897 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Oh well good thing you told me now!  Essentailly, I’m just getting at the fact that I would be bummed if you left us.

Post # 17
Member
2703 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

aww i’m sorry @bostonbee!

i TOTALLY understand what you’re going through. i went through this in my transition from graduating college and starting my first job with my ex… i stayed with him for a good 6 months because i didn’t want to hurt him. but in the end, if i would’ve kept persisting in the relationship, i would’ve hurt him and myself more.

you did the right thing.

Post # 18
Member
227 posts
Helper bee

I’m with the other ladies! It can be so tough to hurt someone you loved so much, but it’s better to end it now, then continue ‘faking’ it until it’s WAY complicated to end it. I hope you stick around in the hive, I always love your posts on the boards!

 

 

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