(Closed) It’s Really Happening…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
590 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012 - St. Philip Catholic Church/Arcadia Brewing Co.

Sounds like you are doing great! Our engagement was not that long (10 months) and so far it has been more than enough time.

I think the Knot tool is a good one, but I deleted about 20% of the tasks because they just did not apply to our wedding. Doing that made me feel a lot better about the list.

As far as help/advice/direction, maybe you would be best off making choices and then deligating things to your Fiance. I put Mr. Aardvark in charge of a handful of things that I knew he would be good at and left them all up to him. For everything else I drove and asked for input as needed. Most of the time I got “whatever you want to do” as an answer. If you need help deciding between two things, the hive is great with friendly, honest input too!


Good luch and congrats!

Post # 4
5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Figure out your budget.

I’d get started on your dress too… if you go through a boutique or designer they can take a few months to come in once you order it, then you have to allow time for alterations.

I’d probably get started on a rough guest list estimate to make sure you have time to iron out any kinks between the families about who is and is not invited.  Oh, and I skipped the STD’s because we didn’t have a finalized list yet and once you send an STD you have to send an invitation.

Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, and get a mental picture of what you want your wedding day to look like.  Write down all the details you can so you don’t forget anything.  It’s overwhelming, but once it’s on paper you can break it down and look at each part individually & tackle small goals one at a time.

Enjoy being engaged & have fun planning- the point is at the end of the day you will be married to your best friend… everything else is just fondant on the wedding cake!!

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