(Closed) It's REALLY hard waiting some days….

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
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Buzzing bee

I know waiting can be hard.  I am waiting and I have to tell you that I am a little jealous of your position Smile  In my case that I’ve posted about, my boyfriend has said he wants to get a job and save some money and then maybe it will happen.  My boyfriend has NOT said he hopes it will happen 3/13/13 (the day of my 30th bday BTW), or that there will be a short delay.  Have you thought about telling your SO that you don’t need a diamond?  Perhaps this will speed up the process and you can get engaged and it will help his pockets a bit.  He can always upgrade for you later!  I tried telling my SO that and he just laughed at me.  We were actually up in the air on a plane and I couldn’t tell why he was laughing nor did I have time to address it (we were being picked up by his family at the airport for Xmas holidays). 

I say be patient.  I think that you have a man in your life who wants to marry you.  11/12/13 could be a cute day to get engaged, or even 4/4/14.  Sequential patterns are all over if you look for them :D.  You’ve only been dating A YEAR and I’ve been in my relationship 2.5 years and I’ve been told it’ll happen ‘one day’ which is very vague.  You should be happy that you have a SO who is involved and letting you know about his future talks about advancing the relationship with you.  Just try and be supportive of him right now, it sounds like he is going through a hard time.  When he finally DOES get a job, the engagement will be sweet and stress free and he will feel good about having you in his life who supported him when times were hard.  This turned out to be longer than I intended too, sorry!!  Good Luck!

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