(Closed) It's sad that one negative comment about my appearance

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 1969

@mollz0621:  *hugs* People have the tendency to suck. 🙁 Your SO is with you because you are beautiful on the outside and the inside.

I know one girl who puts people down constantly and have been the receiving part of her crud too many times, even now, almost a year after we stopped talking and I blocked her on FB. Sometimes all you can do is be the bigger person and remove yourself from the equation.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

That is me exactly.

I got picked on constantly growing up and really only came out of my shell/starting feeling better about myself in College.

It breaks my SO’s heart the way that I feel about myself.

I can hear 1000 compliements and I’m just like ‘eh.. ok… you’re just being nice’ and ONE bad thing and I crumple up and want to die again.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@mollz0621:  Funny how people manage to do that, eh? We get lots of compliments, but the second we get a negative comment, it seems to cancel out all the good ones. Don’t let the insecure person bring you down. Obviously SO picked you for a reason, and the jealous party is simply that-jealous. You are awesome in your own way. Don’t let anyone take that from you, honey. *Hugs*

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

You poor thing! That breaks my heart. I used to get sad, but now it just makes me ANGRY!

No one has any right EVER to make you feel bad! If they do, they are terrible people!

Which is a broad overstatement, but it always makes me feel a little better!

Post # 7
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4272 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

My ex-boyfriend was pretty bad about this. He constantly put me down and I figured that it was an insecurity issue on his part. I was apparently too “skinny” for him. I was too pale. Why the heck did you date me then? I also have a scar on my right side from when I fell off of an ATV in the desert. He told me I would be so pretty if it wasn’t for that scar. I don’t know why I put up with it for as long as I did. I would be lying if I said that it didn’t upset me.

Now I don’t really get it anymore, besides my mother who pointed out that my baby daughter has funny looking toes like me. Like thanks mom! Appreciate it…

I guess all you can do is remind yourself of all the compliments you do receive and that you have someone that loves you.

Post # 8
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11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

thanksfully I’ve reached a point in my life where I don’t care at all what people think or say about me. It makes life a lot easier.  

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@mollz0621:  Ugh, he sounds like a real charmer.  Try not to let someone like this get you down.  *HUGS*

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