(Closed) its time to fire my bridesmaids

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2778 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Thats too bad.  But you have a ot on your plate right now.  Hope the stress eases.

Post # 4
12974 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so sorry it’s come to this.  But, it seems you’re aware of the consequences and are okay with that. I’d sit them down and tell them exactly why you’re getting rid of them, and give them a chance to explain their actions one last time.  Good luck, and I hope everything is easier from here on out!

Post # 5
52 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@ChocolateLime:  I haven’t read your previous posts so I am not up to date on the drama.  Have you already sat them down individually and did the – “this is for real, you need to get your act together” talk?  If you have exhausted literally every option then – girl they are not true friends.  Honestly – maybe they don’t realize what theya re doing, or maybe it’s just jealousy.  Whatever the cause, I think it’s time you had the break up talk.  On your wedding day you should surround yourself with people that support you and your FH.  These girls aren’t doing that.  And don’t feel bad about it.  Rip the band aid off.  You guys have the rest of your lives to make up and become friends again (or maybe not if they are truly being that awful).  You didn’t do anything wrong here and you have tried to make it work.  Don’t stress yourself out any longer!

Post # 6
1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I just read the previous posts, and am still not clear as to what they did wrong.  If they’re bickering, that’s on them to solve it, not you.  Cut it off whenever it begins.

As for absence at dress fittings – its great if they come with you, but they don’t need to.  I’d really hesitate removing them from your bridal party, as it could terminate both friendships for good.

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