Post # 1
I hate to have to do this but i have posted many times about the drama my 2 bridesmaids have caused and im fed up with it.
There was yet more drama last night which cant be overlooked and the time has come to reconsider my options here.
I fully understand that my actions could end friendships but they have brought this on themselves and i cant forgive them for the stress and strains they have put on me and my relationship.
Its either the bridesmaids go or i have a mental breakdown and call the whole wedding off, thats how angry and stressed i am.
Post # 3
Thats too bad. But you have a ot on your plate right now. Hope the stress eases.
Post # 4
I’m so sorry it’s come to this. But, it seems you’re aware of the consequences and are okay with that. I’d sit them down and tell them exactly why you’re getting rid of them, and give them a chance to explain their actions one last time. Good luck, and I hope everything is easier from here on out!
Post # 5
@ChocolateLime: I haven’t read your previous posts so I am not up to date on the drama. Have you already sat them down individually and did the – “this is for real, you need to get your act together” talk? If you have exhausted literally every option then – girl they are not true friends. Honestly – maybe they don’t realize what theya re doing, or maybe it’s just jealousy. Whatever the cause, I think it’s time you had the break up talk. On your wedding day you should surround yourself with people that support you and your FH. These girls aren’t doing that. And don’t feel bad about it. Rip the band aid off. You guys have the rest of your lives to make up and become friends again (or maybe not if they are truly being that awful). You didn’t do anything wrong here and you have tried to make it work. Don’t stress yourself out any longer!
Post # 6
I just read the previous posts, and am still not clear as to what they did wrong. If they’re bickering, that’s on them to solve it, not you. Cut it off whenever it begins.
As for absence at dress fittings – its great if they come with you, but they don’t need to. I’d really hesitate removing them from your bridal party, as it could terminate both friendships for good.
Post # 7
one of them said i was too skinny to wear a wedding dress
one has been bitching about me behind my back
one has been saying things to my fi to cause friction
one has been saying things to fmil about the other bm to turn her againt her
one was very rude to my mum and really upset her
they have both been trying to turn the other againt me
both been bitching
disclosing private info to people and blaming the other
one ruined my surprise part of my wedding