Post # 1
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Blushing bee
Okay, this is probably far over the Too Much Information line, but my gal pals and I were conversing on the topic of dirty talk this week. Many of us in the group have utilized this naughty-time tactic, but I would say just as many in our group have never and say they would never consider it. In fact, one in the group asked how it was done saying she was so embarrassed just thinking about it.
This started me thinking about how to answer her question, and I thought maybe it could be helpful for more ladies out there. It’s not the most comfortable discussion to have, so here are my questions for you:
1) Via the poll, do you and your partner “dirty talk” to take naughty time to the next level?
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2) Only if you are comfortable sharing, what types of things do you say to get your guy revved up?
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
Eh, in the moment we say thinks like “I like it when you x my x” or “Oh, that feels good.” but we don’t really force it.
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
We used to have phone sex ALL the time cause we were long distance so we are pretty good with dirty talk lol… We still do it now and mostly during the act but I honestly wouldn’t write any of what we say on weddingbee…. I would definitely get flagged haha
Post # 5
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Bumble bee
Oh my, what a juicy post… I kinda hope someone shares, LOL!
I had to vote in that last category — it intrigues me, but Fiance is so shy about these things, I don’t see it happening.
Post # 6
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Busy bee
I’m rather curious to see what people share.
Post # 7
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Honey bee
I have tried and I want to but I am so akward about it that it just turns embarassing…
Post # 8
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Busy bee
A well timed “you’re so hard” goes a long way
anyone get the reference?
But seriously, i say things in the moment i would never say any other time!!
Post # 9
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Bumble bee
Haha everything I say is way too inappropriate and involves a lot of dirty slang. Pretty much just talking about what I want to happen…haha.
Post # 10
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Bumble bee
@ScarletBegonia:
And also “You’re so big” hahahaha
Post # 11
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Busy bee
Well, to get him revved, I will grab my boob and say something like oooh look she’s cold, you should warm her up lol He will say things like, someone’s cold, care to warm him up?
Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
Darling Husband and I do quite often.. sometime more than others if the circumstance calls for it like role playing or something like that..
But usually it’s more along the lines of “you taste so good” “you x my x so good” “like it when I x your x?..” and so on and so forth…
Role playing is ALWAYS calls for more though… 
lol
Post # 13
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Sugar bee
Think of all of the worst things you could ever call a women… Those make up quite a bit of our vocabulary while in the moment 😉 It borders on S&M at times LOL
Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
@MsBrooklynA: agreed… I think those fall more into our role playing than “normal” day to day.. but they definitely show up. lol
Post # 15
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Sugar bee
I wish I was craftier. Fiance wants to do Skype-play but I just don’t know what to do or say. And where do you put the camera?
Post # 16
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Helper bee
I’ve done it a couple times and it definitely got him more excited.