(Closed) I’ve been kicked out of the bridal party.

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2589 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

What are you missing?  Nothing. 

Well – you’re missing out on spending the next several months with a rabid bridezilla.

Required spray tans?  Please. I would have laughed in her face. 

She’s going to feel very stupid once the wedding is over and she trudges reluctantly back to reality land.  It will be up to you to decide if you want to forgive her or not.

Post # 4
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

You should be happy she kicked you out of the wedding and probably the freindship..

Clearly she is an unreasonable person and not a friend! I’m so sorry you are going through this!

Post # 5
6892 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

All you’re missing is that it isn’t worth it to put up with her.

Seriously? I would have been so done with someone like that. And I don’t think your son should be her ringbearer (nope, don’t care that that may leave her without one) and I definitely don’t think you should go to her wedding, send a gift/card, or contact this psycho-bride again. Not worth it.

You sound like a nice girl, a considerate friend, and if your side of the story is an accurate depiction, then it’s her loss. And not “listening to her fiance?” That’s offensive. You’re an adult.

Post # 6
868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

“Required” spray tans?!  The PP’s are right, this woman is a bridezilla.  Don’t bother going to the wedding and feel sorry for her fiancee.  That poor guy has to spend the rest of his life with a woman who places more value in tanning and hair than actual relationships.  That will get her real far in life.

Post # 7
23 posts

With a friend like that who needs enemies? I dont know the girl and if she was always a drama queen…but a friend would have tried to work it out 

You were more then understanding. It is she who is rude and without class. A bride does not demand her wedding party get spray tans and their own make-up. This is something the bride should offer if it is that important to her. I suspect she is gonna run into problems with other members of her party and feel stupid when nobody wants to participate.

Sounds like she was just being nice to get the dress from you.

It was worth the 150 to get rid of her.

Dont offer your son as ring bearer. Ditch her.

Post # 8
1576 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Sounds like she did you a huge favor, although unintentionally so. She is really being unreasonable and I predict with that attitude, she will be lucky to have anyone left in her bridal party by the time the big day rolls around. You were definitely the bigger person in this situation and did all you could; let it go.

Post # 9
11 posts
  • Wedding: March 2012

There are words for people like this, and I am far too nice to post them here!   Hang in there girl, and it sounds like you dodged a bullet.



Post # 10
2999 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Dude my BFF is on the verge of this. She keeps repeatedly telling me I have to tan for the wedding because everyone else is and it won’t look good in pictures. I told her no because of the skin cancer history in my family(pale and proud!). Told me I have to buy shoes, I told her no- I’m not buying silver satin peep toes to walk in grass. She now said she’s paying for them (fine with me).

I’m with the other ladies. Be happy you don’t have to deal with it anymore!

Post # 11
28 posts
  • Wedding: April 2011

@corimulliken: She texted me back saying “You just don’t get it do you”. that i am rude and that we will never be friends again. Stop calling, texting and stopping by. That she was about to call me after the 3rd week but because i didn’t listen to the fiance’s advice of don’t call her, and now is not going to call.


I am so sorry you are going through this. When a relationship/friendship unexpectedly ends it’s always painful. It must be hard for you, losing her who you thought to be your friend but……………… sorry this Megan bridezilla is b*tsh*t CRAZY!!!! Rude, hurtful, malicious and very offensive. Who does she really think she is and what gives her the right to treat you like this? She can’t even come up with / respect you enough to give you  a better explanation that saying that YOU don’t get it…. Crazy logic is hard to get!

I totally agree with all the PPs before me, especially with everything that AmeliaBedelia   said.  I would be sooooo done with a “friend” like this.  I am angry for you….. this girl does not run on all 6 cylinders that is for sure… and I know you might be missing the friend you used to know… but the best way to go is probably cut all ties and fake it till you make it!


((( HUGS )))

Post # 12
28 posts
  • Wedding: April 2011

@ViaMinorViator:  This!

If this whole situation was not so miserable i  could laugh at the picture you painted.

Yes, some people are just like that. Poor fiance but he is digging his own grave. Speaks volumes of him though that he is willing to be the messenger…. I would have told my bride to go and sort it out herself as a grown up person.

Post # 13
2951 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I agree with what everyone else has said. I wouldnt worry about her….. she sounds terrible! lol

Post # 14
387 posts
Helper bee

@corimulliken: She’s nuts.  End.Of.Story.  You lucked out on this one.  Never contact her again, don’t answer her calls, don’t speak to her fiance.  If she doesn’t want to be friends with you, then you don’t have to be.  You seem like a normal, nice person who tried to work on the friendship.  She seems like a crazy bridezilla who thinks only of herself.  How old is she?  She has the maturity of a 3 year old who didn’t get her way. She’ll come crawling back after she realizes she’s a child and was ridiculous.

Post # 15
4150 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

This girl is CRRRAAAZZZY.  Required spray tans?  Are you kidding me?  I would hope one of my bridesmaids would slap me if I ever said that.  You’re better off without her.  Sorry you’re dealing with this.

Post # 16
22 posts

This is a blessing in disguise! I don’t understand why women get so carried away with this whole wedding planning stuff..she obviously cares about the wrong things in life..she needs a reality check


hang in there!

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