- 8 years ago
My SO picked took me to lunch today and while we are riding along he gets a call from a friend of his asking about going to lunch. Well, I have no idea what he is saying but I know it must be about me because he is looking at me smiling and says “It might”….so of course, he hangs up and I ask what it was all about, and he explains that the guy was just messing with him about going with me and not him for lunch today and then said something about there being wedding bells….I look at him and do the one eyebrow raise and say “Might??” lol, (and I am 100% joking with him) and he rolls his eyes and says “Oh good grief!” and then explains that he couldnt say yes without opening a can of worms….
We are hoping for an OCT 2011 wedding…. But when I asked him the other night if he had planned anything yet or had a set day for a propsal…he said no, that he had ideas (like hes told me before) but that he wasnt sure what day would be best….and this completely bummed me out, because I felt like he was still only THINKING about it and no plans. So that on top of today just put me in a weird mood, feeling like it was just no where in the near future.
So he brings me back to work after lunch and everything is fine. Then about 20 mins later I get a text…saying “Baby, U should hae NO doubts that I want to marry u!!!” I responded and just explained that I know and that its just hard for me sometimes and it feels like being engaged is far away. His response was “Its not babes…” (disclaimer: his idea of soon/far away is probably not the same as mine.lol) and I said “LOL, how do you know, u havent even decided when yet” and he said “Like Id tell you if I did”…I said that he sounded honest when he told me so I believed that he hadnt planned…and to me far away is 2011….and he said….
“Ive got 77 days then…:-D!!!! LOL”
Followed immediately by another text saying that he wasnt going anywhere and that he was mine forever! 🙂
I FINALLY have a sorta timeline! What do you ladies think? Would you take the 77 days comment to mean that he will def be proposing during that time frame???