(Closed) I’ve had it up to here! (points at forehead)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

nope perfectly normal. Its call stress and for some people. typical family. Keep your chin up! look after you.. so take time out, do something you enjoy. Step away from wedding stuff for awhile and focus on the marriage itself. That will ground you.

Keep positive!

Post # 5
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I think if more brides put their foot down and held firm, then we would have a lot less drama posts!

You go girl, NO NO NO NO!!!!

Post # 6
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3482 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Go for it! The power of “NO” is definitely a necessity in wedding planning. Use it well!

Post # 7
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

@med700: I don’t think it is bad at all. Unless they are paying for something, they really don’t have any say in whatever it is you are making a decision on. They can offer suggestions, but you don’t have to use their suggestions. The sooner you put your foot down, the better, In My Humble Opinion.

Post # 8
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1096 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m just now getting to the point where I’m starting to say no so I can tell you that you’ll have to say it a lot whether you want to or not. Might as well start now, but before you do make sure that you get off the phone or wait a minute befroe responding to an email, take a deep breath and walk away and do something else so you can calm down and don’t lash out. Believe me, some of these people will make you ugly.

Post # 9
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1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Fiance has told me that he’s starting to think his new name is no. It’s an incredible word 🙂

Post # 10
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533 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think it’s about time to unleash the “NO” beast!  I wish I would have done this sonner, it’s very effective and there is a lot less discussion/arguments over what other people think we should be doing.

On a side-note, I totally think you should wear your enforcement uniform while telling people “no”.  Seriously, I bet nobody would mess with you then!

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