(Closed) I’ve lost my wedding groove….and feeling sad.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Aww I feel for you as I have a son who just this week graduated high school. Teenage boys are so tough to raise these days. Believe me he has stressed us out like I just can’t believe. I will tell you not to kick him out of the wedding. Perspective can be lost under the stress but try to keep sight of the big picture. That being that he will grow up and out of being a jerk and screwup, so the goal has to be to keep your family together. Something like kicking him out only alienates him from the family that is supposed to ground him. I’m not saying no consequences but don’t make the consequence something that makes things worse. He needs to know your going to love him through his screwups , and mine has had some douses. Just keep remembering that things and feelings pass. Take a break from planning until your family is back on track. having said all that that venting to other parents helps too. Teenage boys mostly suck, I just keep telling myself that 3-5 years from now hopefully that boy will turn into a good young man!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Your wedding is in October; why not just take off the rest of June and get back to planning in July? Gve yourself a little time to adjust to the new house, get settled and figuee out what’s going on with the son.

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