(Closed) I've made this such a negative experience.

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 61
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earlymorningshakes:  I suppose writing me off as judgmental is easier for you than thinking there might be truth in my words. But you really don’t come off as a warm person, especially when you speak (repeatedly) about wanting your kid(s) out the door at the first available opportunity- and that is, genuinely, a wtf?? Your entire demeanor, whether talking about your SO, or kids or his brother etc, just seems very harsh. If this harshness comes across to others over a message board, because I’m not the only one getting this very negative vibe from you, it could be damaging your real life interactions with others and it would really be in your own best interests to address this, maybe with a therapist, because you seem very abrasive and unhappy.

Post # 62
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earlymorningshakes:  It doesn’t sound like the two of you have very good communication at all. What makes you think you are ready to be married to each other? If you really knew him, you’d know what’s a hint and what’s just conversation or a lame joke. It sounds like you are brow beating him into a proposal, and getting frustrated because he isn’t following YOUR time line. You sound really controlling. You need to take a step back and stop trying to force this, or you may end up divorced again.

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