(Closed) I've never wanted a wedding (ramble)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Don’t worry, you’re not the only person who never wanted a wedding. I didn’t either – still don’t, in fact! Unfortunately, fiance wanted a wedding, as did our families. I really had to put my foot down to get the wedding to be a more casual affair, and now (I think) we’ve all reached a happy middle ground.

I’m sorry that you’re wedding won’t be your ideal (courthouse wedding was my first choice too), but it’s your fiance’s day too and, even though it is ultimately your and your fiance’s day, your families still have a vested interest in how it all goes.

Post # 4
8446 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Aww *HUGS*  Sometimes stress (even though it comes with a great promotion) can just take the enthusiasm out of you.

Post # 5
1399 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I feel unenthused about my wedding all the time lol. I really didn’t want it- it’s for the family. I want to be married, but I don’t want the whole dog and pony show… even our small relatively informal wedding feels like too much for me. I like other people’s wedding, but our own feels like TOO MUCH ATTENTION for me. I get anxious when people ask about it. I alternate between being excited about it and just wanting to cancel it and get married in a lawyers office, then go out for pizza & beer haha.

Try to think of the aspects you ARE happy/excited about and focus on those… especially the marrying a great guy part! 🙂

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