Post # 1
this morning my Boyfriend or Best Friend decides that HE wants to bring up our wedding and our marriage and honeymoon, and he says ” I am about to make a very important purchase….. “
I think he is NOW PLANNING to buy this ring now! Can it be possible that Shut it UP works so quickly… And so, as he is discussing it, and I become kind of silly and giggle a lot, he says to me ” No, no no! Don’t get so excited! I didn’t say it will be this week or anything… It could be a long way away…”
…but he is also winking to me when he says it… !!!
He also says ” I won’t do this on Valentines or on Anniversary ” but I am thinking…… he is just trying to do misdirection…
Anyways, it has been a very good ” waiting day ” for me…
Shut It Up Works… LOL
Post # 3
@ultimatebirds: that’s awesome!! I think most women will join the shut it up pact when they subconsciously know that it’s coming soon anyway! I’m so excited for you! And yes, you have to make sure that you act very very (did I mention VERY??) calm whenever he brings up weddings or engagement, you can’t let him know how excited you are… It scares away men way too easily!
I am like you though, because he keeps saying that it won’t be for Valentine’s Day or my birthday… But I can’t tell if he’s trying to throw me off, or he’s being serious. Either way our anniversary is in June and I’m hoping it will be around that time…!?
Post # 4
@ultimatebirds: No it can’t work that quickly,lol. but congrats!
Post # 5
@kendra389: Yes! I am also very happy for you,as this sounds like what my S.O. is doing. But yes you are right, it’s hard to say if he is trying to trick or being honest! This morning before work my bf says to me ” so, I think I may be placing an order today… ” and It was All of my Power to not react with glee! I just kind of smiled……. so let’s hope that this is not ” scary ” to him HAHA! And you are right about waiting to start shut it up until thinking it is about to come…. because now that I know, that is whats making me want to ” SHUT IT UP ” in the first place LOL!
I hope you enjoy this time period for your relatiosnhip, as I think I am feeling even more affections for him and happier… !
@subtlebee: HAHA….. ok, ok, you are right….. I will keep mum!!!