(Closed) I've solved the mystery!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee

Lmao! This is so true!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Haha.. Well in my case my SO recently said he wants kids in about a year( knowing that we both want to be married first).. I said a year!?! Well I’ll need a ring on my finger first so I don’t know about a year (said it lightheartedly , we were at a hockey game after all.. ) and he said don’t worry you will.. So in my case he’s a little (lot) off

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Dang. SO and I just agreed last night we don’t want any (more) kids. We already have my son (previous relationship) and feel he’s quite enough for us. Oh well!

Post # 6
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Worker bee

If this is the case, then I’ll probably be waiting ANOTHER ten years!

Post # 7
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Helper bee

Hm, I disagree. I know a lot of couples who got married well before they were ready for children. My parents for example waited 6 years after their wedding to have their 1st. And some of my married friends don’t want kids at all.

I’d also be cautious about reading too much into your Boyfriend or Best Friend talking about baby names meaning that he’s ready for kids soon.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

This definitely applies to my hunny. He’s told me for years that we were going to get married, so I’m wondering what’s the hold up? But then I had this “a ha” moment, and it happened some time around when he tried to tell me if I got pregnant unplanned, that we would be getting married. Boys are so weird… Being the one isn’t enough for them I guess…

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Nope, we’re getting married and waiting at least 2-3 years before TTC. Marriage was his idea!

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