(Closed) I’ve stopped waiting

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
2442 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@KateRBels:  Good for you.  You have a great attitude! Best wishes to you and your soon to be husband!


Post # 4
367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

YEPPP YOU’RE TOTALLY RIGHT…I’ve seen some pretty awesome rings on some miserable girls…which goes to show you, it’s not representative of the marriage ALL the time…just because you won’t have one doesnt mean a thing!!!

I am happy for you that you’ve come to such a decision..it shows wisdom and maturity and respect for your man (that you want to show him off and value him sooo much!)…Good luck with everything:)

And remember—you can always get an inexpensive diamondless band for like $80bucks to ward off any guys that might try to hit on you thinking that you’re single or something. I have a link if you want it to inexpensive, simple bands.


Post # 5
59 posts
Worker bee

you are so right, its definitely not about the ring nor is jewelry a reason to put off marriage when you’re ready.

a consideration would be, playing devils advocate here, is that financial hardships can put a huge strain on any marriage but especially a new one. if there is difficulty affording the e-ring/wedding bands it might be a good idea to make sure finances won’t be a stumbling block in the relationship before you get married.

Post # 6
1475 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Makes a lot of sense. I so admire that! I hope you guys still get bands, and I’m sure you’ll get a wonderful ring in the future, should you want one!

Post # 7
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Kudos to you! Let us know how everything turns out! 🙂

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