Post # 17
I’m so sorry. The whole thing just sucks and you’ve already been through so much. I’m the person yellow.clover is referring to. My dh did the extraction and we had a failed fresh ivf. I was so very anxious to move on to my fet, but my doc found something with me that requires a three month treatment. My fet, which I originally though would happen in August, now won’t happen until January or February (and that was after many months of waiting as we hoped for improvements on dh’s side). The setbacks, and I’ve faced many, can feel so defeating. I’d be lost without the ladies on the 1+ board, many of whom have already posted here. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope youll join the 1+ board for some support.
Post # 18
@Macintosh: You are seriously due for some great luck and happiness, after all you have been through. There WILL be a rainbow after all this rain! Sending you prayers and positive thoughts.
Post # 19
@Macintosh: I feel like IVF is my last chance at happiness and the only thing I have to look forward to.
This comment actually really concerns me. Why will you be unable to find happiness until IVF? I totally get wanting to have a child, but comments like that are a big red flag for me. Have you been seeing a therapist or anyone during the ordeal with your husband?
Post # 20
I think OP should use this as a time to not focus on anything fertility related and try and regroup. She’s been through a lot and I honestly would See this as a chance to know I’m doing everything I can and to take a mental break.
Post # 21
I just checked in on this thread and I have to say something. Of course I’m seeing a therapist. I’m also on and antidepressant.