(Closed) Jason, The Bachelor!

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Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

I was sitting on my couch shouting at Molly to walk right out the door. I wanted to like Jason, I did! But come on. Getting your small child involved in your love triangle is too harsh. Poor Ty. I think Molly is a sweetheart but she’s 24! Jason is 30+ Is a 24 year old really ready to be an instant step mom and an instant wife all at once? I think not so much.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

I AGREE…I was FURIOUS and soooooo disppointed in Jason. He could have handled things a little differently. OH my I am curious to see what happens tonight on the rest of the "After the Final Rose Part 2" So much DRAMA!!

Post # 6
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80 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I was in disbelief. To be truthful I think both women were too young for him. Which makes for difficulties with a small child too. So I think there’s more yet to come.  He does seem really confused about what he wants. I think he had too much to ‘sample’ from and couldn’t decide the best flavor. I liked him less and less as the show went on, but he is definitely one of the more likeable Bachelor’s.

Post # 7
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85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I am so disappointed in Jason for how he treated Melissa!  I’m also disappointed in myself for watching countless hours of mindless television and two episodes of "After the Rose." 🙂  I was so proud that Melissa spoke up for herself, and told him to never contact her again. She held it together pretty well considering her Fiance broke off their engagement on national television.  If I was Molly, I would have been done with Jason!  If he is going to treat Melissa like that, he will certainly treat her the same way.  I also think my reaction has to do with age though.  Molly is young, and will hopefully come to her senses.  On another note, I really think Jason’s views of relationships are completely skewed.  When he was talking about how wonderful things are when he and Molly are on the phone, with Ty playing in the background, I couldn’t believe it!  Long distance phone calls do not make a real relationship with all of the nitty gritty details involved!  I 

Post # 8
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271 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m not a fan of these shows and I didn’t watch the finale, but heard about it. To be honest, I can see how everyone would be furious but if you realize you made a mistake you need to correct it. He did that. I don’t know what people expect him to do- go on and marry this girl and then divorce her knowing she was never the right fit, or admit mistake and bypass the additional heartbreak.

I’m on his side

Post # 9
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271 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I also want to disagree with cynthias225’s comment above. Long distance relationships are just as real as regular ones for the people involved, and a lot harder too. Me and my Fiance were long distance for the first 3 years together and there was nothing unreal about that.

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2009

@ Josalyn — I have to side with you. I agree that if Jason knew things weren’t right, he had to make them right regardless of whose heart he broke. He’s human, and if he honestly thought he was in love with Melissa, but then later realized he wasn’t, he needed to do the right thing and fix it. I’ve also been in long distance relationships and agree that they can work. As for only being 24 and suddenly being a mom and wife, I’m 25 and believe I could handle a situation like the. If my Fiance had a son, I wouldn’t think twice about being with him.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

I have to second Josalyn’s last comments….my Fiance and I were long distance for our first four years.  Nothing unreal about that either!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee

Yikes,   I think my Darling Husband and I are about the same ages as Jason and Molly…  I don’t think it is that much of an issue.

Post # 13
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7081 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

I don’t have problems with long distance or age gaps (I have no right to judge on that account!), but I think developing a relationship in the glare of the lights in the constant presence of cameras is problematic. 

I’m really glad that it worked out between Trisha and Ryan, but that is the exception, not the norm.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee

Ryan was basically the nicest guy in the world.  I still have a secret crush on him : )

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