- 6 years ago
I have two female co-workers that i’m super close with at work. We pretty much know what goes on with each other lives. Then, there is this other co-worker (jealous) whom I am not close with and choose not too since I have this feeling that I can’t trust her. She’s very fake around others and I’m not sure if everyone sees this but i did have a few people tell me they can tell she is fake and ask me to be careful. But anyways, yesterday, we all had lunch together at the cafe (one girl and jealous girl are close) and somehow the topic of vegas came about since the jealous co went there for her friend’s bachelorette party not too long ago. The one girl was excited and say they couldn’t wait to take me to vegas for mine. The jealous girl had this shock look and said sorta loud, “is she even engaged?” I’m like… wtf…. awkward? so i mumble …. “no, i’m still waiting.” Then my other co worker was like, “well they are planning to.” I couldn’t believe she diss me like that!!
Now, the jealous girl is 32 and single. All her friends are getting married and she once was in a long-term relationship and was ready/waiting but it never happen. This girl was not a happy camper when my ex co worker got engaged and married, so i’ve always been careful not to mention too much about getting engaged and wedding plans. Heck, I didn’t even tell her beside the other two girls that SO and I had gone ring shopping. This is just another reason why she will not be invited to my wedding. And now, since we had some department restructing, her deks got moved and is sitting next to me! UGH. Now, i have to talk to her more then I would like.
But anyways, i just needed to vent. I’m over it. Thanks for listening. 🙂