(Closed) Jealous friends- LOOOONG VENT

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I know this is about me

not knowing anyone involved but i thought it was a dig at his Girlfriend *shrug shoulders*

try not to care what the 18yr bf of a friend posts online – in fact block him and her and stop sharing info

Post # 5
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581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

She’s being petty and you should just ignore her.  If you really have to do something start intentionally copying her and see how she likes it.

You have to also keep in mind that while copying someone is annoying, it’s not illegal.  Try keeping to yourself.  Keep the printing of wedding stuff for home only.

 

Post # 6
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33 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2012

 I know this can be frustrating but honestly you gotta just let her be. Its not your fault for doing things before her. She seems very immature and so does her bf. I bet if you just ignore them, it’ll bug her even more then she’ll eventually stop being so petty. Go on with your happy life =)

Post # 7
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1962 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Everything Jam2012 said. I think ignoring them would be the best policy. Try not to have interaction with her unless necessary. Be as nice as possible though… If you are super polite and don’t respond to her I bet it will make her angry and get her to stop. She sounds like she wants lots of attention and is using you to get it.

Post # 8
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595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

Just keep going your own way, she’s making herself look crazy. Confronting her or anything would just make her happy, as you’d be playing into her trying to make you react.

Post # 9
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2576 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I say just keep on keeping on!

 

The remark may or may not have been directed at you- so just ignore it!

Post # 10
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989 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

she is 23 and her bf is 18… look my Fi is turning 29 this month while i am 21… that stated There is a huge difference in maturity between a recent high school graduate and a College senior that has been living in the real world… Don’t get stuck back in High School, it looks like she never left.

Post # 11
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8727 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Yeah I don’t think she is jealous of you- jealous of your wedding/car maybe but everyone has twinges of jealousy when someone gets what they want. I would say that the Boyfriend or Best Friend is immature (being 18 and male) and M has probably been expressing her frustrations about you getting everything she wants. The holiday thing yeah I think you were being petty- Phuket is a popular holiday destination from Australia and finding a good hotel is often best done through word of mouth/friends. Plus lots of people plan their weddings before the offical engagement- I am pretty sure there are bees on here that do it!

Just brush it aside and pay not attention to it. I also agree that it seems like you don;t want to be friends with her- so don;t be just be a work collegaue and defiantely stop sharing with her.

Post # 13
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

leave travel brochures and plans for things that are very different from what you are actually going to do – leave all real wedding details as a “surprise”

Post # 15
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692 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

20k loan to pay for a birthday party? OP don’t waste time with this girl. She clearly lacks common sense and is slightly delusional…

 

Post # 16
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8727 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@Steph18: I didn’t connect the November trip with your honeymoon sorry. I would be flattered that she thinks you have good taste.

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