Post # 1
I’m seriously jealous that my Fiance is being pushed by his friends to go to Vegas…I ALWAYS wanted to go there and since we are from the east coast and it’s a pretty expensive flight I have never had the chance. The trip is much too expensive for my girlfriends to partake in and I wouldn’t even fathom asking them to go ….but I am so jealous it’s unbelievable… 🙁
Anybody feel this way about their Fiance bachelor party?
Post # 3
Haha, we had our bachelor and bachelorette parties last weekend and I would have NEVER wanted to go on his trip. He went bowling, kayaking, and camping which I would HATE and we went on a limo vineyard tour and then ate sushi 🙂
Post # 4
I would be jealous of Vegas because I love Vegas!! I wasn’t jealous of my husband’s party. He went to a casino a few hours away and I had a night out in the city.
I feel like guys have the room to go “bigger” with the bachelor party because they don’t have as many wedding-related expenses as the girls.
Post # 5
EXACTLY. I feel like men are always able to fork up the cash to go somewhere away for the night, while girls are kind of forced by budget to have something more low-key. My Fiance and his guys are going to Put In Bay, which is basically a big party island a couple hours away. I’m pretty sure my BMs and I are just having a nice dinner out and having a spa night type thing at someones house. (I’m not a huge drinker, my Maid/Matron of Honor is only 19, one of my BMs is prego and another is nursing, so it limits our “typical” options)
I would totally be jealous if they were going to Vegas though!
Post # 6
Thanks for your responses…I was starting to feel like a crazy person for feeling this way so I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who would be jealous!! it’s just that Vegas and Hawaii are two places I have always really wanted to go to…ugh, guess I’ll just have to get over it somehow… 🙁
Post # 7
I would be totally jealous if Fiance was going to vegas and me and my girls couldn’t take a trip somewhere. That would be unfair, regardless of who’s paying. If I’m stuck staying in city for mine, he’s stuck staying in city for his!
ETA: Vegas is somewhere my Fiance isn’t allowed to go without me, I’ve been twice already and there is so much i want to be able to show him there.
Post # 8
I would be jealous of your FI’s trip! I love all of those! I’m not a vineyard limo person…lol…I’ve actually pushed for a fishing trip for our honeymoon!
Post # 9
@serenitea: if it makes you feel any better.. my Fiance is going to VEGAS for his bachelor party next weekend. Him + 12 OTHERs. Am I jealous? yes… why? because I know my BMs are too cheap to go. So we are staying here and going out, my sister (MOH) is planning the party and has asked people to chip in $50 bucks for dinner/limo liqour etc.. and theyr’e having a hard time coughing that up. Perhaps I wouldn’t care but all of them make much more than I do and they dont have student loans.. no mortgage etc. They have the money to spend 200 bucks on a pair of shoes.. but no money to chip in for their friends bach party
Post # 10
@serenitea: OMG thats so funny my fh is going to vegas too. im going on a weekend cruise with my girls my moh and SIL is paying for me ; ) but lots of girls from the bridal party and of course my bff are coming.