(Closed) Jealous of my roommate :/

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3993 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

*Hug* That’s really all I can say. Well, I can also sympathize on the no honeymoon…immediately! That’s what I keep telling myself. We’ll go on one EVENTUALLY, and so will you guys. 🙂

Be as happy as can be, go ahead and post your countdown (delete everyone who is nasty) and make them deal with it. If they can’t be adults, they can’t be involved.

I do think it’s kind of crappy that your own roommates are more into hers, but alas you’re right, not much you can do. And the low budget I can sympathize with too for sure. Ours is “supposed” to be just under 8K and it’s really difficult.

Hope you feel better soon! XO

Post # 4
18 posts
  • Wedding: January 2012

Wow, how long ago did your “friends” graduate high school? 

Do not feel bad! Go ahead and post your countdown.  Post whatever you want because you are going to marry someone who loves you…if these mean girls are so upset by your wedding/marriage then I really pity  them for their shallow petty lives. Honestly, they need to put on their big girl undies.

I think you are handling this with grace (much better than I would have acted).

I’m not having a honeymoon for now (FI has to go to work and school the day after the civil ceremony…the cons of being a college bride). Have you considered a mini moon using Living Social or Groupon? I always see some great little getaways on both sites and they seem pretty inexpensive. 

Post # 5
1316 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Wow these girl “friends” of your sound really shallow, I think your doing the right thing by gradually cutting ties with them. They just must be sincerely jealous of you/unhappy in their own lives to treat you in this way.

Just remember, you are more of a woman than they could ever be, and that’s why they are envious. You have an Fiance who is soon to be your husband, and as you said, he’s not with anyone else as they were b*tches. I firmly believe in karma too >:-)

Post # 6
148 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012


Were not doing a honeymoon either, eventually yes.. but not right after.

I understand being upset about the pack of ‘girls’ (note I say girls and not women) but in all honesty, you don’t need support from people who act like that. People usually are rude or act out negative towards others are trying to put other down to raise themselves.. since they feel horrible about who they are and what they dont have. Jealousy and insecurity is damn ugly lol and they sound full of both.

To me it sounds like you have a big heart and sadly thats why it hurting you more (I’m the same way). Be happy you’re not going to have those people there on your wedding day or in your life at all. You’re hadnling it better than I would have (I’m more passive aggressive) lol.

Where are you getting married?? (Now I want to hear the details lol)

Post # 8
234 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Hugs also! I know you posted on the thread I started earlier, but your more detailed post makes me so mad for you. This is pure jealousy and a disgusting display of it at that. You are marrying the guy all the girls wanted (lucky you!) and they can’t take it. I know it’s hard to separate your feelings from this, I struggled with it also, but you need to. As someone on the outside of the situation you’re going through, it’s easy to see they are jealous.

Focus on the people that ARE happy for you. Ignore everyone else. Not rudely, just in your mind quietly. You are soooo close to your wedding day and no matter what drama these people try to drudge up, you’re marrying the man of their dreams.

If you need any words of encouragement leading up to the wedding, please feel free to PM me anytime. I’ve been there and I would love to help out!

Post # 9
2015 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@SimplyChic11:  Are your “friends” 5 years old? Because they’re acting like a bunch of children. Scuze my french, but fuck em’ all.

I have no tolerance for people like that. I know this is easier said than done, but my advice to you would be to shut these people out of your life and don’t give them the time of day. When it stops bothering you, it stops being fun for them. Your happiness is the ultimate revenge. I hope things get better for you.

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