(Closed) jealousy

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013 - Garden

I moved across the country to live with my Fiance and when I got here I was working 8:30am til 5:30pm Monday to Friday, while he would work 4:00am til 12:30pm Tuesday to Saturday. By the time I got home from work and we ate dinner, he would have to go to bed, and we only had Sundays to spend together. I felt like we never got to see each other. I totally understand how you’re feeling.

That being said, I really don’t think a relationship can work without any “Us” time. You need to be able to see a light at the end of the tunnel. How did we work it out?

He was offered a better paying job working regular hours. Now we’re home at the same time and have the same days off. But it took a long time for the right opportunity to come up.

Post # 4
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2126 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

My Fiance works two jobs too and has done so for about 3 years now. His full-time gig is at night, and his day job, though it’s ‘part-time’ has him working usually 35-35 hours on top of his 40 hour full time-gig…up until last feb, I was working full-time as well, now I’m a full time-student and seems like I’m busier more than when I was working….it’s hard, I won’t lie. We really try and make the most of the few hours we have together a week. I usually do my best to be all caught up and free from school work on saturdays..but it doesn’t always work out. We do our best to make that time for eachother, and to schedule a couple of days off together every few months, even if it’s only to drive to the coast and visit friends or something. Ur not alone!

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