Post # 1
Today I went to a good friends first birthday party for her daughter. Had a great time and I had the pleasure of making her Minnie Mpuse cupcakes. Surrounded by kids running around, it was great.
I came home, went on Facebook and saw that two of my friends are expecting their second child.
I don’t know why but my heart broke a little bit and I felt jealous! And I feel lime shit about it. I want so badly to have a baby. But we are in no position to do so, and on top of that, I have this huge fear of not being able to conceive.
Having baby fever sucks…
Post # 3
O I know how you feel. My cousin’s best friend is 17 and is pregnant and her boyfriend just proposed to her, they plan on getting married in 6 months after she turns 18. Its not a good situation due to other stuff on top of the teenage pregnancy while they are in highschool. But jeeze did I feel jealous at first! Like this 17 year old met her boyfriend, got pregnant, then got engaged and will be married all in the span of my engagement! I got over that real fast because she is going to struggle hard. But the rest of my pregnant or mommy friends out there make me feel super jealous. Now is so not a good time for Fiance and I to start having kids but seeing all the baby pictures and toddler pictures and videos on facebook is making my womb hurt. Ugh, terrible. I just gotta keep telling myself babies will come when we are ready and can truly enjoy them and not stress as much as some of my friends are because they had their kids a little early in life. At least we got the bee to vent to about our baby fever!!!
Post # 4
Baby fever does suck, but just think of some great hand me downs and advice you’ll get from your friends! You have a great position to learn from their mistakes.
I’m one of the first of my friends to have kids and I am in the total dark. No one can give me any special advice, let me in on the secret ‘omg must have baby item’, etc. So my Darling Husband and I are doing it alone. Its still fun and all that jazz, but kind of lonely when no one else has kids yet. And for the record I am 27 and my husband is 28.
Post # 5
- Wedding: September 2011 - Boy #1 12/2015, boy #2 02/2018
@Daizy914: I know what you mean. I told a good cousin of mine that kept asking me when are we going to have babies that we would have our first when she has her second one. She is 7 years younger than me and recently, I learned that she is pregnant with her second baby due sometime in July. I felt a bit down but yet happy for her.
Post # 6
@candy11: oh im happy for them. Having a baby is a blessing. Im just sad bc I want to have that experience so badly, but its not a good time yet. Im hoping by this time next year we can start trying.
@Hippos: if i hear of any must have items i will let you know! Im around kids all the time
@alyssaC: oh yes, thank goodness for the bee! And now that you mention it, yea when i read those posts, it was a heartache and a pain in the womb bc i want that feeling. Sure pregnancy has its pros and cons but man, its amazing what a womans body can do. Im so amazed by the idea of pregnancy
Post # 7
@Daizy914: I was also afraid that we would not be able to conceive. That was like a nightmare of mine. But we were successful our first month of trying. So try not to think negatively until you actually try. Good luck to the both of you when the right time comes.
Post # 8
- Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY
@alyssaC: I would NOT be jealous of a 17 year old pregnant.
Post # 9
I know how you feel! It’s like as soon as Hubby and I decided to start ttc, there was a baby boom on my Facebook! They’re mostly people I’m not close to, but I was still jealous. I think the thing that really get to me is when pregnant couples say “it was a complete surprise!” It’s like, I’m happy for you, but go to hell(kidding!!) LOL
Post # 10
@Daizy914: I totally get where you’re coming from.
Just this weekend, we were at my niece’s third birthday and my SIL’s family was there and a bunch of other kids and a newborn and it was super fun but then my mom tells SIL’s mom that she is jealous because SIL’s mom has four grand babies and my mom only has two (my older brother’s two girls) and she gives me this look..
I just shrugged. Like.. You don’t think I want to already!? I’m 25 this year, everyone and their cat is having babies. Of course I wish I could give her more grand babies already.
Its not the right time for us either. We’re getting married next year and should be in a house and Fiance will be in a stabler job and I will be done school and have worked for a year and then we will be able to talk about it. Only then though. I don’t want to squish a baby into my tiny house OR my crazy schedule!
It sucks though. My friends are trying to make babies, accidentally making babies and I an just like.. yeah.. Welcome to my one bedroom basement suite, sorry I can’t fit more than like two dinner guests on account of a lack of dinner table.
Ah youthhood. I love my young and free life, I really do. But I’m almost done with it. Freedom is overrated.
cue aching ovaries