(Closed) Jealousy when engaged

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2448 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

No, not at all. I think I would be very troubled if my significant other got mad/jealous about me communicating with single folks or other people’s spouses, especially when the communication was just friendly banter. That would signal trust issues.

Post # 4
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733 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

depends on the friends I guess.

I am friendly with my friends husbands and fiancees and sometimes boyfriends (IF I approve oF them haha) but I never go out of my way to be buddies with them unless it has to do with my friend  

Post # 5
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197 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Hmm, I think I became less jealous since we got engaged. Maybe because of the security with the thought that he picked me and he wants to marry me. I guess, it would also depend on the actual situation.

Is your fiancee doing anything that makes you feel unsure of his feelings for you? And for your single girl friends, they’re your friends so you should know if they are really flirting or after your guy. Even if they are, if your guy doesn’t show interest, don’t worry about it. If it’s really bad, I think you need to talk to your friend/s. 

 

Post # 7
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6212 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

@doubtingdebbieah:  I don’t think it’s inappropriate at all. If she were sending him secret texts? inappropriate. benign stuff on his public facebook wall is just being friendly and accepting

Post # 9
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6212 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

@doubtingdebbieah:  you’re welcome =) I think that you should actually take it as a good thing as long as she isn’t flirting or giving him too many compliments, etc. It means that she accepts and likes for Fiance as a person and doesn’t mind spending time with BOTH of you, and she’s not just dealing with him because she’s your friend. These are the types of friends that I actually think are easier to maintain friendships with in the long run because you’re not only doing girls things or worrying about anyone being the third wheel

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