(Closed) JealousyHaters …a small rant

posted 5 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

URGHH dont even get me started!!! I have whole rant about this EVERYDAY!!!

Post # 5
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2759 posts
Sugar bee

Hahaha, I know – anytime someone brings the word ‘haters’ into the mix it’s like a bat signal for what kind of person they are.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I know exactly what you mean! Although honestly sometimes I see it happen on here too – like if a friend is sick of hearing about wedding stuff everyone immediately says it’s obviously because she’s jealous and is a hater. I mean, maybe, but maybe you just need to tone down the wedding talk and ask your friend about her life every now and then, you know? I think girls are far too quick to brand others as jealous!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Hahaha, true story 🙂

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

YES YES YES. People who do this are annoying. A woman can just dislike another woman or anyone else without being called a “hater” it’s like no dude I’m not jealous,  I just cannot.fucking.stand.you

Post # 11
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1293 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

@stardustintheeyes:  There is a lot of female cattiness though. Sure, I bet there are lots of legitimate reasons for disliking someone. But there are a lot of women who just hate other women and don’t want to see them succeed, do well, or be happy regardless.

I wish females in general were more supportive of each other instead of viewing everything as a competition. I’m not a rapper, I don’t have *haters* but I sure do wish I had more supportive female friends!

Post # 13
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4495 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Ugh, SO annoying. Sometimes I just want to say, “She isn’t jealous, she just doesn’t like you!” Sometimes the threads on here do sound like jealously to me, but most of the time I think people just want to think others envy them. Its a nice way to rationalize people not being nice to you, hah

Post # 14
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1293 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

@stardustintheeyes:  But it seems we are mostly *assholes* to other females. We are supportive of the men in our lives. It’s frustrating and sad. Thank god my best friends aren’t like that. This is one of the reasons I keep my social circle small and intimate. I can’t stand back stabbing bitchiness.

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Wonderstruck:  yes! I always see people on here saying their friends or bridesmaids are jealous. I wish one of my friends that got married or engaged before me would dare to say I was EVER jealous!!! 

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