(Closed) jobs for little girls thats not flower girls

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Bubble blowers for when you’re exiting the ceremony

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Stick with your original plan. You do not have to include every child in the family in the wedding party, nor do they all need jobs.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m having my Fi’s cousin be my attendant and carry the end of my veil.  

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

What are the ages of the 4 girls? But from what you say, I would have the other 3 girls as regular guests. Your crtieria for choosing the oldest girl only sounds fair. They can all be included by being in the photos, you can even do some photos of just you and the little girls.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

We are having our 3 girls hand out the programs with the bubbles at the ceremony. They each have thier own basket. It makes them feel involved yet they are also out of the way come vow time. Kids at the alter will not stand still so trying to watch 4 will be to much your maids

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m having my cousin carry a “Here Comes the Bride” sign. She’s going to be 10 when I get married, and I didn’t want to include her at all because she’s a spoiled brat who has a pathological need to be the center of attention. But my aunt threw a shitfit (apple and tree, anyone?) so after seeing the HCtB sign on Pinterest, I figure that’s something she can do. And if she has some kind of meltdown prior to the ceremony and can’t participate, the sign isn’t that vital, anyway.

I also like PP’s ideas of having them be bubble-blowers or carry your train. Important positions, but if they back out or flake on you, it’s not like their jobs were absolutely vital to your ceremony.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@oneovakind:  Foot sounds like it needs to come down soon. Mothers in law and their whining aren’t a good combination.

Post # 14
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@oneovakind:  Now you’ve got me more concerned about your 5 yo niece. Your mother’s wedding is irrelevant to FI’s niece (not her grandma, she wasn’t there, she doesn’t even need to know about it), but I’m wondering how your 5 yo niece (or her parents) will feel missing out a second time. If you think you’ve got that all under control, that’s ok. But if I was giving a 2nd flower girl position I’d give it to her. Why? Because then it’s the bride’s two nieces.

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