(Closed) joint proposals??

posted 6 years ago in LGBTQ
Post # 3
1359 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My wife and I proposed to each other. We picked out rings together, then on our anniversary we hiked to the top of a nearby mountain. When the moment felt right, we each proposed to each other, one after another, then split a bottle of champagne and went out to eat at our favorite place. 

It was perfect and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Post # 4
42 posts
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Pharmacy Museum

I had already initially proposed to her off the cuff and unepectedly with a plain band that my mother had given me. We then shopped together for engagement rings, chose a day and hiked up to somewhere special to us, had a picnic, and asked each other individually. It was perfect for us. 

Post # 6
383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We didn’t do a joint proposal, but we did both give each other rings.  I knew she really wanted to be surprised and I had always pictured myself getting down on one knee and doing to the whole grand gesture proposal.  I threw her off by telling her my timeline was to propose in a year because I needed to save up more money.  So when I proposed she was VERY surprised! We then picked out my ring together and she gave me my ring a couple weeks later. 

Post # 7
16 posts
  • Wedding: August 2014

@wrkbrk:  I am not gay, but I was snooping on various posts and came across this. I hope you don’t mind me sharing my opinion. Obviously my boyfriend will propose to me, but we have discussed timing together very specifically. I don’t see that as much different as what you are doing, so I think it’s fine! Talking about it means you both want the marriage equally, and you know she excited for your engagement.

Post # 8
2385 posts
Buzzing bee

I love these proposal stories so much! Very sweet!

Post # 9
1578 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

I think it’d be sweet even if you know the date. It’s like the anticipation that you know you are going to take the next step in your relationship together… I think it’d just be sweet. I was surprised by my Fiance, but I would have liked to know the day so I could have been a little better…uhm..dressed haha. πŸ™‚ But I feel like you can make her feel like the most special woman in the world, surprise or no surprise.


Good luck! <3 <3

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