(Closed) Journey of TTC After Miscarriage – Part 10

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Hostess
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

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bubbycakes:  I was just writing a good luck, and i see your update!! YAYAYAY  πŸ˜€ I’m so happy that things are going well!!!

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futuremrssquiggs:  YAY! I’m glad you got the referral! I keep wanting to ask for one. I know they’ll say no since this is our 3rd month back to ttc, but my cycles have always been wonky, plus i wonder if my last conception was a fluke (the the issues could’ve been prevented), and something could’ve been wrong before? paranoia at its finest!

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Kabatchy2be:  Glad that the pokes arent that bad! When we had our pregnancies struggles, and loss, SO many friends and relatives came out of the woodwork to share their stories of difficulties and loss. It was so comforting. People in real life are very different than people on WB sometimes. We are a collective… we are here BECAUSE of our losses, but to see people in day to day life, not on a loss thread, it’s a bit more comforting.

Post # 542
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

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futuremrssquiggs: Yay for an RE appointment! So soon! Hopefully you won’t need it though!

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bubbycakes:  This is the BEST news! Yayyyyy!

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Kabatchy2be:  I totally understand what you mean. While it is sucky and I hate that anyone has to go through infertility/loss, it is nice when you find someone you can relate to.

Post # 544
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

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bubbycakes:Β  I am so relieved for you…fantastic news!

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FreckledFox:Β  Hope O comes soon, so frustrating when it’s later than normal! I would maybe do EOD until then if you’re exhauated!!

Post # 545
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Helper bee

Hello everyone! I am back on the board after AF arrived today, 5 weeks after my D & C.

I have not really been reading through the boards too much, but I am sorry to still see you all here! I was hoping for BFP’s for you all!

I guess overall I am doing okay. I still have really hard days, which kind of hit me out of nowhere. Last Thursday was my due date for my first pregancy. As many of you can relate, it sucked going through that and especially not being pregant for it like I had hoped.

My doctor thinks that both MC’s were just circumstances of bad luck. They did chromosomal testing with this last loss and nothing abnormal came back. They think the baby’s heart may have been growing outside of his chest. We also found out it was a boy from the testing, so that was difficult.

It is possible I have a blood clotthing disorder. Back in October I had some bloodwork done from a neurologist as I was having sudden headaches. He said everything came back normal and I knew I was being tested for somethings that can relate to MC’s. When my gyno said she wanted to run similar tests and I had that October bloodwork faxed to her and she said I did test positive for one of the blood clotting tests. Apparently it is common for false positives with that, so I will have repeat blood work March 21. She does not think that is the case because my MC’s were so different, but we will see. She said I can try in the meantime before the blood work.

Im terrified to get pregnant again. Never thought I would be in the position and of course like everyone else in the world is pregnant right now!

I am happy to be back to get the support from all you strong, wonderful ladies πŸ™‚

Post # 546
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

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mrsm42712:  I am so sorry to hear about all of the things you have been through. (((HUGS))) Just know you are not alone and yes the fear and the anger are very real and it’s okay to feel that way. Time helps to heal all wounds.

Post # 547
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

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mrsm42712:  I’m sorry you’re still here too but I’m glad to have the support from you as well. I hope you can find peace xoxo

AFM, So long story short my sister is pregnant with #2 and wasn’t even that courteous when telling us. I had opened up to her earlier that day that we were trying when she was asking me if I was feeling better about my Sils pregnancy announcement, I said sort of. She told me to be happy for them. Oh really? Duh. She said That she’s not trying til next year. Cue relief. Then that night, Surprise. And I’m spotting brownish orange, no signs of O, slight watery cm I guess and Opks are all negative. Thanks body. Thanks world. Pity party over. 

“Just because someone conceieved, doesn’t mean there is one less baby for me”… Trying to remember that.

Post # 548
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

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FreckledFox:  Weird that your sister said they weren’t trying for a year and then told you she was pg the same day. Why bother lying? Ugh. All the hugs. And I’m sorry you’re O is still hiding. Bodies are just so tricky sometimes. 

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mrsm42712:  I’m scared to be pregnant again too but I haven’t even had the opportunity since my MC! Getting preg is such a battle I can’t even think about the war ahead. But, I just knowww we can all do this. Keep swimming. 

AFM, I had an RE appt this morning and have 5 little follies right now. I go back Tuesday and hope there’s at least one dominant follie that’s grown. Until then, more shots shots shots shots shots. Too bad LMFAO and I are taking about different shots. 

Post # 549
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

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Kabatchy2be:  Exactly, and she got just gotten done telling me to be happy for my SIL. Ha! Right. SIL at least had some tact and respect. Also your shots shot shots comment made me lol! I hope those follies keep on growing! 

Post # 550
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2015

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mrsm42712:  I’m sorry for your loss, and sorry to see you here but I’m glad AF is back! I’m about 2 weeks post d&c for a mc at 9 weeks, and waiting and waiting for AF. I’ve also only been following occasionally since I feel there is no progress to be made until my uterus lines itself up again and i start sending out some eggs! geez. 

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FreckledFox:  ugh! I would be so annoyed. I’m trying so hard to be happy for the million pregnant women at work and the billion on my fb, but it’s hard. Hugs and here’s to your O hurrying up! 

Side note – I finally figured out how to reply to more than one person at once! Quite a newbie over here.

Side note 2/ vent: it seems that whenever I have a day when I am finally feeling fine and forgetting my sadness, someone comes along and says “but really, how are you feeeling?” vent over

Post # 552
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

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FreckledFox:  ugh! I’m so vocal with my sisters, there’s no way I would be able to not call her out on handling that crazily. To go from we aren’t trying, to whoops I’m actually pregnant in a matter of hours would infuriate me! I’m sorry :/

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mrsm42712:  My doctor said the same thing to me about bad luck. But I felt like she didn’t do any testing, so how would she know if it was bad luck or something serious?! It’s so scary after 2 miscarriages to think about going through it ANOTHER time. I hope with all I  have that we don’t find our place there.

 

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HaaaveYouMetTed:  There’s always thoughts of “what could I have done” after a loss (or two). I want to tell you they are irrational, but I can’t when I’ve had the same thoughts. Have you been eating better since our “pact?” I did well all week, with the exception of yesterday. Stress at work and Valentines goodies with the class was not a good mix!….I was told I had Graves Disease (my thyroid was super hyperactive, at one point I couldn’t keep food down ) about 6 years ago, but I was young and stupid and loved that it made me thin so I didn’t follow up. I was on thyroid meds for about two years, but then I felt better all of a sudden  (cue the weight game). I distinctly remember the doctor telling me that it would effect me when I was trying to conceive if I didn’t get help. I *so* hope when you get to the endo, you’ll find an easy fix!!!

 

AFM, nothing new at CD7. I decided to not temp again this month. We are just going to try to BD EOD for the next two and a half weeks and hope for a BFP. Our appointment with the RE is Wednesday,  so at least I feel I’m making moves. 

Post # 555
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

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HaaaveYouMetTed:  ugh I feel you. Every time I decide to “eat better” it puts me right into crazy mode. I have issues with food as is, and whenever something becomes off limits its all I can think about! I’ve read so many good things about cutting gluten and dairy to help with skin issues and unwanted hair growth but I just can’t and stay a sane person. I hope you have better luck than me! If something works for you let me know!

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chocolatebean:  so sorry you’re going through this. Luckily, with time the awkwardness with people that know about your loss will pass, I promise!

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