(Closed) Journey of TTC after miscarriage part 5

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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

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MrsBananas:  My cycle is definitely not like clockwork, I usually O between CD 16 and 20 and have a 12 day LP.  I usually set my POAS date for 28 days, because I usually can’t help myself from testing a couple of days early anyway.  Me and DH’s anniversary is the week after, so it would be great timing! Trying not to get my hopes up this early.

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GrannyPantiesRock:  I know exactly what you mean, I was getting tired of posting BFN every month and seeing girls come and go so quickly with their BFP’s.  I’m doing this now to “get back in the swing of things”, but I don’t know if I would continue for to much longer.  Hopefully we won’t have to!

 

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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

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peachcake:  I totally agree with those opinions.  I also was a lucky first timer, followed by terribly unlucky double loss, so to see someone come in and it just all play out perfectly on the first shot stings pretty badly.  Unfortunately two of my best friends have had the same luck, and it makes it hard to talk to them about loss because they are the opposite of relating.  Pretty sure one of them is preg with her second now too.

As for doing anything crazy, I have been eating a ton of nuts but not for fertility.  I’m on a cleanse with whole foods only, so lots of nuts for snacking on.  Unfortunately it’s a no sugar cleanse, so I stopped taking daily royal jelly spoonfuls.  I also have had no alcohol in 3 weeks, so if I get a BFP next week when the cleanse ends that means an extra month of sobriety tacked on to {hopeful} 9 months!  Ahhhh!  πŸ™‚  It would be SOOOOOOOOO worth it though, just sayin universe make it happen!!! LOL 

Post # 439
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

peachcake: Andthepupmakes3: I’m not doing much diet wise for fertility (although I have been known to also much on pineapple core or 2) but I am taking a boat load of vitamins/meds.  I’m taking Ovaboost (myo-inositol), Co-Q10, Maca root, prenatal and Synthroid for sub-clinical Hypothyrodism.  In total 9 pills a day so I guess that would be considered something a bit crazy.  And I’m looking to add in royal jelly but I have no idea where to get it. 

peachcake: Do you eat brazil nuts at a certain point in your cycle or all throughout?

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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

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MrsBananas:  eating about 5 a day from cd1 to o day then starting the juice and core. This routiene was suggested to a friend going through IVF to create good eggs and sticky lining so figured it couldn’t hurt us either. right now I’m ready to try anything if it’ll help! 

Post # 441
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

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MrsBananas:  I ordered mine on amazon. 

Post # 442
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

*Long sigh* DH told me today that he’s been feeling distant and depressed. We came to the conclusion to put off TTC for another month to see if he feels better. πŸ™ I was so looking forward to trying this week…

Post # 443
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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MrsNebraska:  Oh I’m sorry! That’s a bummer. I hope he feels better soon!!

This weekend DH’s cousin’s wife announced and I had a pity party relapse that night. Gosh that hurts so much!!!

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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MrsFairyBee:  Thank you. We talked more about it. Apparently we haven’t been communicating well. Which I totally agreed to be better at. He works a lot and so do I (I’m on call 24/7) so it takes it’s toll on us. We agreed that we do want a baby and to take this week to try again. I’m so glad we talked about it. I’ve been looking forward to TTC for a month now. I know he feels the same too. I just need to be more open sometimes. It’s just hard to express pregnancy feelings to people who don’t truly get the emotional impact of it. Also, I’m sorry about your family’s announcement. I haven’t known anyone yet to get pregnant. I’m worried about my feelings when my bff gives birth in Nov. I hope I can keep my jealousy and saddness at bay. *hugs* never a bad thing to have a pity party.

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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

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MrsNebraska:  I was about to give your post a big thumbs down until I read your update. I’m glad you guys got to a more helpful point in the conversation and you’ll be able to TTC this month!

 

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phoebephoebo:  Well, I got the results back from the culture.  I’m still processing this, but apparently I have a bacterial infection that’s been linked to miscarriage & early term labor/ stillborn.  We are now both on meds to try and knock it out.  From what I’ve read, it can MANY rounds of meds to get rid of it, depending on how long you’ve had it and how resistant it’s grown.  They told me not to TTC until we’ve got the situation taken care of, but we are smack in the middle of the TWW right now.  I’m basically assuming I’m not preg/ I’ll lose it even if I am.  I’m really sad this could potentially postpone TTC until 2015.  However, if this resolves the issues we’ve been having, I’ll be beyond thrilled.  Unfortunately it’s no guarantee that this was our problem.  Have you gotten yours yet?

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Blushing bee

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MrsNebraska:  I’m so glad you guys talked about it and are going to keep trying! I went through something very similar with my DH…right as my FW was starting and I was trying to get him to BD with me, he admitted he didn’t feel ready, which crushed me. But when we talked about it more he just doesn’t feel ready to have to go through another MC, which we’ll never ever feel ready for that, no matter how long we wait. He was also worried that I would be devastated if we didn’t get pregnant again right away…which is true, I know the longer it takes the harder it will be for me, but I told him that was true whether we were TTC or not…each month would get harder. At least when we’re TTC there’s hope. I’m so glad you get to BD this week!! πŸ™‚

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Andthepupmakes3:  oh my goodness, I’m so sorry! I don’t know how common that is but I feel like every woman of childbearing age should be screened for that bacteria so they know and can get rid of it before TTC! That sounds crazy. I’m so glad you know though, and I’ll be praying that the meds wipe it out quick. 

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Blushing bee

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MrsFairyBee:  I’m sorry, I know that hurts. I’ve been terrified that my SIL is going to announce she’s pregnant…they’re super young and I don’t think they’re planning to try for quite awhile but I’m just terrified she’ll get pregnant before me. Which is ridiculous and selfish of me. It’s just that DH is the oldest on both sides of his family and he still has all 4 grandparents alive (I have 0), so I really want to give them the first great-grand baby. We had just announced to them right before my MC and they were all soooo happy. It seems like everybody on fb is announcing that they’re pregnant though, and it hurts so much that I can’t look at it much right now.

Post # 448
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I miscarried about 4 months ago and we have been trying to conceive since. This morning I got a positive test. I wish that I can feel that happiness that I felt last time but all I feel is nerves. It’s like I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. We want a child so badly but I’m so scared that it’s going to keep happening 

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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

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JessicaBrooke926:  congrats on the positive. I hope this is your rainbow baby and everything works out! I suggest the pregnancy after miscarriage group on here. Everyone there knows exactly how you feel! This group is for those who aren’t yet pregnant again so we may not have the best advice for you yet! 

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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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Andthepupmakes3:  I’m so sorry. I’ve never heard of a bacteria that does that! But I am glad you know and the doctors can work to knock it out! Kick it’s ass to the curb!!! If it makes you feel any better, I’m also in the waiting game until later this year. Our BFP and MC were a surprise so now we’re back to our original plan of waiting to TTC in December. It’s hard to wait even longer once you’ve known the joy of a BFP and just want that again. Feel free to chime in at the waiting to ttc threads, unless you’re already on those and I just don’t remember. πŸ™‚ We’re all very supportive of each other’s waiting game.

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laceygrace:  Thank you. It is such a selfish feeling. Makes you feel rotten. But my SIL told me that night that we’re so justified in feeling the emotions we do and to aknowledge them and feel them and cry and then move on. I needed that so much since that’s what I was doing that night. Full-blown pity party. I’m feeling better about it now and know that cousin and his wife, although younger than us, weren’t planning for this and are just excited with their little surprise. Am I jealous, yes, but I’m also happy they’re happy. And I will hope we can add to the baby cousin club not too long after them next year! Here’s praying for a 2015 babe! πŸ™‚

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