(Closed) Journey of TTC after miscarriage part 6

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 782
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’ve been extremly emotional these two days!! I have been very careful since the MC to be sure we did not get pregnant. As much as I flip flopped between wanting to get pregnant right away and waiting, Darling Husband and I agreed we would take the summer and just enjoy it with DS. 

Well we were so careful on Easter. We just got caught up in the moment I wasn’t even thinking. Right after I checked my period tracker and there it was…that big flower stating that I was ovulating. 

I was so happy but then the fear set it that maybe this won’t end well. Maybe I’m not pregnant. My heart was crushed because I wanted to be on the ball when it came to this. I didn’t want to get my hopes up high over nothing. 

I want to keep my mind positive and not think about it but it’s soo hard!

I should get AF in 12 days and the wait is KILLING me!!

 

Post # 783
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959 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

MechEBee:  I’m still following your story. I really hope your doctor gets more proactive about this. There has got to be a real reason why it is dropping so slowly and some weeks not at all. I really hope he gets his shit together and gets you what you need so you can get the show on the road! 

Post # 784
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4675 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

MechEBee:  I’m sorry about the very slow drop.  Like MrsNebraska said, I really hope that you doctor gets proactive and doesn’t make you wait week after week to see such a little decline.  Hugs.  

Post # 785
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

MechEBee:  OMG.  This is unbelievable. If I were in your shoes, I’d push for a D&C at this point so that you can move on.  I hope that your doctor is willing to work with you and figure out a plan so that you can move forward.

eecuadrado:  I hope you get the result you want!

Post # 786
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1534 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

MiJeS1104:  I’m so sorry to see you here.  Sending big hugs your way.

Post # 788
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490 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

MechEBee: That is crazy, I can’t even imagine how frustrated you must be at this point!  Honestly I’d be calling my doctor like crazy for answers on what’s next.  I really hope this gets resolved for you ASAP so you can move on. 

Post # 789
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

MrsNebraska:  auggiefrog:  SaltedCaramel:  GonnaBeAFind: To be completely honest, I’m kind of skating along at this point at least for this week because I’m pretty sure I ovulated about 7 days ago. So I’m not sure if it’s possible for implantation with hCG at 15, but I’d rather just make sure that it didn’t happen before I schedule a D&C. 

If I don’t get raised hCG at my next blood draw (Friday), I’ll hound him for a D&C. Still hoping to hear from him this morning about the test results though.

Post # 790
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23 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

KatiePi:  Glad you had a good weekend for the most part. I think we can all relate to the feelings you had about your cousin having her baby.  It is a rough thing to deal with, even when you are truly happy for the person. Good luck during your FW! 

Pinkpeep:  I can completely relate to having a hard time setting boundaries on what you can handle vs grinning and bearing it.  It sucks.  

MiJeS1104:  I’m so sorry for your loss. That must have been heartbreaking after having the IUI be successful.  I also had a m/c after having an u/s where we heard the heartbeat.  I feel like that made it much harder to deal with.  I had a previous blighted ovum prior to that, so after that u/s I knew there was no hope.  But hearing the heartbeat this time around, made it that much more real to me.  I hope everything went well with your D&C.  

Post # 791
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

AF showed up yesterday, pretty much right on time (usually due on the 9th).  That’s one thing my body seems to be able to do right, is get my cycle back on track quickly.  It came back right on time after my last mc too.  Too bad my body isn’t as good at figuring out how to have a successful pregnancy.  We will start TTC this month.  I may use an ovulation kit to make sure that is back on track too, but we will see how it goes.  I’m going to try to not put so much pressure on trying to make this happen again right away.  I’m hoping that it does, but I don’t want to stress myself out over it.  Definitely feeling a lot better after AF showed up.  It has helped me know I am finally ready to move on.

Post # 792
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: City, State

I had an interesting surprise today– I have solid ovulation lines on FF. I must have Oed on CD8. I know you could ovulate really early after an anovulatory cycle, but I was not expecting it that early! We had excellent timing (0-1, O-2, O-3) so there is a good shot I will get a positive test next week. That is kind of freaking me out and I am also trying not to get too excited. We were planning to not carefully time BDing and just take a “let it happen naturally” path, so I was really not thinking that this was a real possibility. Especially because BDing that often is so out of the ordinary for us.

Post # 793
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Got a positive OPK yesterday evening on CD19. Based on past cycles, I will ovulate Monday at some point, even tough I’ll continue to show a surge for a few days (have a suppeer long LH surge). Darling Husband and I are hitting O-2, O-1, and O (also got O-3 without knowing OPK would show positive next day). So hoping this makes our rainbow baby!

Post # 794
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1592 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Hi all.. I think I’ll be joining you here. I am currently experiencing my first MC/CP (will find out for sure tomorrow when I see my doctor). The bleeding started Saturday morning when I was about 9 hours from home at my SIL’s bachelorette  party. It was awful and Darling Husband and I ended up leaving. I had no idea how difficult this would be 🙁 

Post # 795
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

HaaaveYouMetTed:  I’m so sorry you are going through this. I just had a D&C on Thursday and trying to get through it physically and emotionally. It sucks! We are all here for you! 

Magnolia_Mountain:  I had the D&C on Thursday. I was fine, then two days later started bleeding and I’ve been having intense cramps and lower backache. Totally sucks! This morning I had a fever and went to the fertility center and they prescribed me antibiotics just in case I’m fighting an infection. I’m really hoping I can start my period in a few more weeks and then get going on IUI #2. The wait sucks! 

Post # 796
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

MiJeS1104:  thank you. So sorry you are here too 🙁 this whole process is full of waiting. So frustrating! 

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