(Closed) Journey of TTC After Miscarriage – Part 8

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Post # 721
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Ugh just had my first WB eaten message. Dang it.

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BeverlyGeese:  So glad you found some support in person with people who have had similar experiences. Everything about this sucks. Sometimes it can be cathartic to just vent it out to people who get it. 

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leahdany:  Interesting to hear about celebs and their IF struggles. Like, even though they make millions, they’re not spared from this heart ache. Seems like most of them have since had success in some way so hopefully we’re not far behind!

Post # 723
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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BeverlyGeese:  Thank you so much Bev. Sounds like an amazing group. I need to find one like that. Glad you are slowly starting to move on. Thinking of you.

 

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HaaaveYouMetTed:  Thanks so much. Unfortunately my lines are super squinters now and practically negative. I went in for a beta this morning just to see, even though I won’t be back for the second draw on Thurs. I called to see if my results were in and the bitchy nurse answered and was rude to me. I let it go bc I don’t know what her issue is but it just somehow made things harder. I’m guessing my HCG is at 10 or lower, will hear about that tomrrow. Just waiting to start bleeding. Somehow it just doesn’t feel real. I feel numb and just so sad that this is happening for the 4th time. I will need to find an RE who specializes in secondary RPL or just RPL in general. It’s just so hard. You’d think by #4 I’d get used to it but it really never gets easier. Especially when you start out with so much hope. 

Post # 724
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

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lalalalauren:  I’m so sorry to see this. Can’t imagine how frustrated you feel right now…sending you Internet hugs! Have you ever had your thyroid checked out? A friend of mine had repeated losses and the doctors determined that to be the issue. Now that is under control and she’s finally having a healthy pregnancy. Just throwing it out there. Take care of yourself!

Post # 725
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

 

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Post # 726
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

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BeverlyGeese:  I am so glad you found a place you could speak and relate to people in real life. I am going through my second miscarriage now, and it isn’t any easier. I learned I was miscarrying a week ago, but finally last night it happened naturally. It was absolutely awful, but this morning I was able to wake up in peace. Knowing the absolute worst is behind, now I feel a bit better knowing I can move forward. My betas are still at 9000, so I can only hope they will drop soon. 🙁 You aren’t alone!

Post # 727
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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lalalalauren:  I’m over here from the Oct POAS board.  I am very nervous I may be headed down the same path.  I got my BFP at 9dpo on a FRER subsequent FRERS have all shown 2 lines but all very faint.  All digitals I have taken have been negative.  My FRER today was very faint more so than the one from 9dpo.  I am wishing I had not tested early to begin with. 

My first MC was at 6.5 weeks and very painful physically and emotionally.  If this turns out to be a chemical pregnancy I am hoping that it is much easier to go through.  Since the digitals never turned positive, I feel like I haven’t really been able to believe I was pregnant this time.  It is just so incredibly frustrating. 

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Post # 728
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

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Kabatchy2be:  such a good description, cathartic was exactly how it felt last night.

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futuremrssquiggs:  Our stories sound almost identical. It is almost reassuring that it is normal to find out and not miscarry immediately. That has been a big part of my anxiety this last week. I’m so sorry for your losses. I was saying last night to my husband that no one deserves to experience one mc, and I feel sorry for myself (and others) that have had multiple. 

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lalalalauren:  I just want to hug you. I wish I had answers, I am so sad you are having this happen again. Fwiw my clinic here in KC has a RPL program, I think. I’m sure it wouldn’t be the most convenient for you to travel, but maybe they would have a recommendation for you in Chicago. Sending prayers.

Post # 729
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

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happyheartbee:  While no MC is easy emotionally, I felt that my CP was a breeze compared to the MC I had this week at 8w2d. When it was a CP, it just felt like a normal/heavyish period. I hope you don’t have that outcome!

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lalalalauren:  I feel like you have been on lots of the same boards as myself, and are everyone’s cheerleader. I am so sorry you are going through this and hope you can find a doctor that is versed in RPL and can bring you the help and peace you deserve!

Post # 730
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Hi Ladies…  I wrote about this on the Charters thread, but I’m going to be Maid/Matron of Honor in a wedding that is 90% going to be in Fall 2016… same time I would be due if we succeed in the first few months TTC. I told my BFF about it and she said she needs me there so she would try to work around us… but she’s going to need to choose a date sooon and we’re not even ttc yet.. so we can’t plan it. I am not excited about ttc as much anymore. I’m afraid that i wont be able to attend the wedding. It’s 10 hours away. Plus the bridal shower and bachelorette party stuff might be up to 6 hours away. I went to my therapist last night and told her about my anxiety/panic attacks over it and she said that I should step down from Maid/Matron of Honor duties. I cried. I don’t want to, not yet. We don’t know whats happening. We aren’t delaying ttc, and shes (hopefully) going to pick a month good for her and we pray that it works out.

Also, you know how sometimes we rant about some women getting 2 or 3 kids before we are allowed one? Well my SILs best friend just announced that #6 is on the way. SIX….. SIX!

Also, We need a new thread. We are at 49 pages! Anyone can start it. Up for grabs!

Post # 731
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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futuremrssquiggs:  Thanks for your reply. 

I got a positive digital test this morning so I am feeling a little better.  Today would have been CD1 so  maybe everything is OK afterall.  I didn’t think getting pregnant again after a MC would be such a rollercoaster, I go from hopefull and happy to sad and hopeless within hours.  My head just won’t stop thinking that something bad will happen again.

Post # 732
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

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FreckledFox:  I’ll start the new thread and hopefully I can get thread-starters luck 🙂 I’ll do replies on the new thread.

****There is a new thread ladies. Please respond there, thanks.****

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