(Closed) June 14 brides, what are your RSVP dates?

• Astra
• 6 years ago

• Wedding: June 2014

MrsFarm0619:   We made ours May 12, since about half are from overseas.  

• dms0622
• 6 years ago

• Wedding: June 2014

MrsFarm0619:  My RSVP date is May 24. I’m sending them out April 19 (exactly 8 weeks before the wedding) so that gives them more than a month to respond.

• jaykwellan
• 6 years ago

• Wedding: June 2014

springbride23:  I wouldn’t worry – I’m a June 7 bride too and my RSVP date is May 15th (random, I know – our invitation designer did it and I didn’t care enough to change it). At May 17th, you still have 2 weeks before the 1-week countdown.

For ours, I figured too that depending on who hasn’t replied yet, I can contact them earlier. Like if it’s a distant relative, I’ll wait til 1 week after the RSVP deadline and follow up with a friendly phone call, but if it’s a friend, I’ll just text them the day after the deadline and be like, “WTF – where’s your response” haha.

• mcgoo
• 6 years ago

• Wedding: June 2014

Our deadline is May 1st. But I did have a bit of a meltdown on weekend cos we had less than 30 replies out of 80 people, so I’ll admit there was a group text sent (I know!) There are some people who have legit reasons for not replying so far, but my thought process for most people was “you’ve had this long & done jack s**t, you’re not doing anything in the last week”<br /><br />In my defence, some of the responses have been RIDICULOUS! What some grown adults consider “replying” is doing my head in. I’m now only missing about 20 people (incl some we simply won’t know til a week or 2 out) so I’m in a much better place.