(Closed) June 1st Wedding: sick to stomach from nerves

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: How nervous are you about your wedding?
    A little : (20 votes)
    24 %
    Somewhat : (24 votes)
    29 %
    Overwhelmingly : (14 votes)
    17 %
    I'm chill : (24 votes)
    29 %
  • Post # 3
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Oh absolutely!! I’m going through the cold feet phase (my wedding is in August). From what I’ve read, that’s totally normal! It’s a stressful period and a big decision. Just remember that you’re going to be stunning, the day is going to beautiful (no matter what happens), and you are going to experience one of the more incredible moments people get in their lifetime. 

    Yoga!!! It’s a life-saver for me 🙂 remember to breathe!

    Post # 5
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    336 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @Bunny_the_Bride: You’re probably nervous because you’ve probably spent months planning a day and you feel a lot of pressure for it to go perfectly.

    I’m a date twin. 🙂 My fiance told me that he’s nervous this morning because there’s an element of performing at a wedding – all eyes are on you during your vows, your speeches, you first dance, etc. Just remember – your guests wouldn’t be there if they didn’t love you to pieces and wanted to support your new life as a married couple. 

    It’s easy to say “don’t worry about it,” so I won’t say that. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. And enjoy your day when it comes. I hope it’s beautiful!

    Post # 6
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    5014 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Not really at all. The only thing that stresses me out about it is when my mom tries to add more people to our guest list (the room has a limit that we’ve already exceeded), or my wedding planner ignores me!

    Post # 7
    Hostess
    14027 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    I was pretty nervous, too. Just do everything you can to relax and enjoy these last few days, and don’t be afraid to ask your family or bridesmaids for help!

    Post # 8
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    2144 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I feel like I’m having a nervous breakdown the last couple of days because there’s still so much to do and he is just so whatever about it. I have 18 more days to go though, so hopefully I calm down because I have barely been sleeping for the last week.

    Post # 9
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    688 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I was SO NERVOUS! I had to have my dad hold my arm tight so I wouldn’t sprint down the aisle just due to plain nerves. And my hands started to tense and cramp up. I have never had stage fright before, that must be what it is like.

    Post # 10
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    3830 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Bunny_the_Bride:  go to the gym, drink some wine, read a book. it works for me. 🙂

    Post # 12
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    951 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I’m in a bit of a panic.. still 3 weeks to go but I’m ready to start packing for the honeymoon, the hotel for the pre-wedding night and wedding night, and start on out of town baskets just to try to reassure myself that there isn’t so much to do! 

    Post # 14
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    757 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    i wouldn’t say i’m nervous. just super busy. we had a wedding the weekend before ours and ended taking 5 days off wedding planning….so we’re behind. and we have friends and family coming into town. i’m getting done what i can and trying not to worry about the rest.

    i ran around to about 5 or 6 different stores today doing normal household errands and wedding errands…came home and cleaned up the house a bit. sitting back and relaxing with a beer before i sweep, shower, and start cooking dinner 🙂

    Post # 15
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    3430 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @TaurianDoll:  haha! I have been drinking wine, and going to the gym but I can’t concentrate enough to read 🙂  I have been in a state of nervousness lately it started once I fell under the 30 day mark, now I just want time to go by fast! Put  me out of my misery already! 

    Post # 16
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    2144 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @Bunny_the_Bride:  He’s helping with some of it, but things we need to do together he keeps putting off and it’s annoying.

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