(Closed) June Brides: How do you describe your feelings and emotions now?

posted 7 years ago in June 2011
Post # 3
3601 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Positive that I finally get to marry him.

Negative that it might rain, we are cutting it closely on the money (personal and wedding), a groomsman is opting to work on our wedding, and that we are having a pretty pitful and unromantic “honeymoon”

And my life is pretty topsy-turvy right now, but I made a thread about that already.

Post # 4
74 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am trying to enjoy it but my guest list/rsvp situation is so out of control it’s sucking the fun out of everything! I will be glad when I am in Cancun with just Fiance though.

Post # 5
3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Trying to focus on the positive and pushing all the negative out of my way!!! I’m concentrating on the love πŸ™‚

Post # 6
14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I have had both positive and negative.  The pressure of getting everything done is starting to wear on me.  There has also been some real crap going on at work which isn’t helping, like I almost quit my job badness.  I did get a huge bump at DB the other day, and that has help to change my mind set.  Then there was the fact that the FH was being a jerk for a few days, but he came around sometime yesterday and realized it (yay for suck up/I have been an ars gifts).  So basically it has been an up and down few weeks, hopefully we are back on the up side of that.  Fingers crossed.

Post # 7
524 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am trying to make sure everything is done, people though sometimes can just be a debbie downer and have no clue what to say sometimes …UGHHH cant wait to just relax

Post # 8
5295 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

I’m feeling like I need to get a million things done in 24 days! And mostly I want to be sitting on a beach in Jamaica, with a drink in my hand and the sun on my face.

Post # 9
91 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Excited for the day to finally be here and in a way I can’t wait for it to be over. I feel like every day it becomes more stressful for everyone involved. But I’m sure it will be wonderful once everything is worked out.

Post # 10
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m with all the girls who want to be on the beach with a cocktail in hand.   I’m so happy i’m going to be marrying my best friend but everything else is driving me crazy!

Post # 11
11113 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Excited and as @june42011 says

I’m Trying to focus on the positive and pushing all the negative out of my way!!! I’m concentrating on the love

as I don’t want to be worrying that I still have no job on my wedding day.

Post # 12
2600 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I feel like I’m at the pinnacle of both positive and negative right now!  It’s crazy. 

On one hand, I am SO excited for the ceremony that I am finishing up writing… that in a month I will say these vows with my sweetie and we will end the day as husband and wife.

I’m happy that my to do list is shrinking each day, and I no longer feel overwhelmed by my projects.  I’m happy thinking of how I will look that day, and how Fiance will look when he first sees me.

On the other hand…I am stressed.  We are likely giving up our dog very soon for a variety of reasons and that’s been hard.  Fiance started a new job, he’s worked it before, but there is a new schedule and it’s been tough only seeing him on the weekends.  Work is very busy for me right now, and I’M GETTING MARRIED IN A MONTH! 

There’s a lot of extra pressure for me, as many people don’t see it as me getting married, but a person who has been a wedding planner for the better part of a decade getting married.  Expectations are high.

And trumping all of that is my mother.  She’s crazy.  And yet again, just yesterday, a mere 31 days until the wedding, she has once again changed her mind as to what she will be paying for  for the wedding. 

Leaving us at this point, without the ability to offer any sort of bar to our guests, or even cocktail reception food, and putting our modest minimoon 4 hours away in jeopardy.

It’s not fun, it’s not pleasant, it’s made me ill and I actually cried at work yesterday.

But… I have faith somehow it will all come together and I will remember why my brides love working with me… I will remind myslf to take my own advice and in  the end we’ll have an amazing wedding and memories to share.

Until then… Ima just gonna tweak a little bit more πŸ˜‰  And have some cocktails.  And cookies πŸ™‚  And BEE very VERY thankfull for Weddingbee.  Where we can share these emotions with other strong, brave women going through the same things – all here to help each other reach that altar and life happily ever after πŸ™‚

Post # 13
500 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Ready for it to be OVER!!!!

Guest list spun out of control – had to change from seated to buffet, which sucked.  now the 10 day forecast is telling me scattered thunderstorms.  Awesome for my outdoor ceremony.  I’m not paying 3k for a tent.

Post # 14
295 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m a mixture of positive and negative depending on the hour. I swear I’m losing my mind…

Feeling overwhelmed with my to-do list that seems to never stop growing, bummed that my overall “look” for the day is not what i envisioned it being (started that thread a few days ago! pity parrrrrty!), and super duper sad that my best friend (who is also my little brother AND the best man) will be moving 4 hours away the day before the wedding because his job transferred him. He’s doing everything he can to make sure he’s at the wedding- but I’m mostly sad that he won’t be down the street from me anymore! πŸ™

As far as positives go, I’m looking forward to finally making it official after almost 7 years, to going on my honeymoon and relaxing in the Mexican sun for a week with my new hubs, for being able to CALL him husband, the new house we are getting together that will be ready for move in the day we get back from Mexico and to see all my friends and family that are flying down for the wedding.



Post # 16
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

This is an emotional time, that’s for sure!

I feel mostly happy and excited basically all day long, thinking about the wedding.  I’m also more easily moody.  I’m quicker to get emotional or grumpy than usual, I think.

Overall, though, this is a wonderful time and we’ve got to cherish that!

After the wedding is when things will really get tough because ten days later we’re moving away from all our friends and family.  πŸ™  I’m not even thinking about that right now!  Wonder when it’ll hit me.

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