(Closed) Just a little MOH vent

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
318 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh no!  I’m sure that’s frustrating.  It sounds like she is just struggling between having financial issues and wanting to be the best Maid/Matron of Honor possible and is ashamed to admit she’s having issues?  I hope everything works out!

Post # 4
46672 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Why not phone her up and have a talk? Tell her that you  know that travel is expensive and you would rather have her at the wedding than come out this spring. Everyone knows that airfares have gone up with the increasing price of oil and you do not want this to be a burden to her.

Make a plan ahead of the phone call of things she can do to help out- research on the net?

Post # 6
1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

girl, give her a call…  the land of “what ifs” is enough to drive anyone crazy!

I am sure she will be happy to know that no matter what you still want her there as your Maid/Matron of Honor.  Perhaps she just feels guillty because she can’t do more.  Maybe she feels left out because the dresses were picked without her?  I think I would probably feel that way.  So, even though it was unintentional, perhaps she is hurt:(  I am not saying you owe her an apology, or you did anything wrong, I’m just trying to understand the situation and give an objective point of view.

so call her… and then let us know whats up:)  I am sure it will all work out, especially since you have been friends for so long. 

good luck!


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