(Closed) Just a Little Sniffle

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
46607 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I also know that you only get a day, but if she knew your date, that was very thoughtless and inconsiderate of her.

Post # 5
9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs. Meowerson:  So sorry to hear.  That was pretty inconsiderate of them.  (hugs)

Post # 6
2892 posts
Sugar bee

I never understood why anyone would want to do something to simply spite another person. Why? What’s the point? What does it do for you? It just creates messes where there weren’t any. But that aside – it’s a little crappy of your overseas family to hear about the 2nd wedding and drop all their plans. They already said they’d attend your wedding. It’s a douche move to just go, oh, someone else is engaged, sucks for you, later! I’m really sorry you’re having to deal with this. I’d be upset too. Here’s to hoping something happens and she has to move her date. 😉

Post # 7
5095 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Oh hon, I’m sorry. That’s lousy and you’re allowed to be sad and disappointed about it.

Post # 8
902 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Wow, I’m so sorry to hear this!  That’s very rude of the other family member to schedule their wedding right before yours and even worse… family that already said they were going to yours is now saying they will go to the other one.

I would be heart broken if I were really close to a good bit of my family.  🙁 ::hugs::

Post # 9
3374 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Like seriously who are these people who plan their wedding so close to close relatives??? People say you only get one day, but I generally think that close cousins/siblings should only have one wedding a season.

DH’s cousin was married almost 8 months before us and we still got people complaining about our wedding date. But we made sure to give the cousin enough time and the relatives enough time to get excited for our wedding. A lot of people still went to hers and not to our wedding though. What can you do? lol.

Post # 11
210 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012


Post # 14
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yay! Glad to hear more people are coming to yours.

That is an awfully quick engagement/wedding turn around. Could there be another reason they are so eager to get married? I can’t imagine planning a wedding in less than 2 months is easy!

I would be a bit sad if that had happened to me as well.

Post # 15
2414 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I also never understand this. I’ve always thought the considerate thing to do is plan your wedding around other family/friends if you can…especially if family is going to overlap.

All of Fiance family is coming from out of state so if one of his cousins got engaged and set the date right before our wedding, I’d be really hurt and upset because we’ve been engaged with a date set for a year already!

Post # 16
2522 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Mrs. Meowerson:  That’s great!  What a jerk move in my opinion to set a date purposefully 2 weeks prior to yours!

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