Post # 16
I mean, maybe the kind of wedding you want, sure but not A Wedding! In general people need to fly to Vegas like they need a 3rd arm.
Not trying to burst your dream or anything, just pointing out that you could always reconsider your wedding “needs” if the waiting is that bad!
Or just take a deep breath and realize that it all likely wont happen by his semi artitrary deadline and trust that Vegas will happen in 2 years- and enjoy life!
Post # 17
I see your point but I’ve wait a long time to have the wedding that I want and I don’t want to give that up, neither does SO. The people who will be flying to Vegas actually WANT to go, they are a huge part of the reason we have chosen to do it there. I know that all of this is unlikley to happen in the 2 year time frame I don’t mind waiting 2 years to get married I’m just stressing because I don’t think SO realizes how long it may take to fall pregnant after that..
Post # 18
Maybe he needs to stop being so rigid about a baby on the way by his 32nd birthday. This sounds kind of arbitraty and based upon someone else’s comments about his own situation.
Post # 19
I feel like you’re stressing about things that he isn’t even terribly concerned about. A timeline is not a deadline, if it takes longer for everything to happen then so be it. Why stress now about how long it may take to conceive when you haven’t even gotten to the proposal yet? Seems like you’re getting worked up for no reason. If things don’t happen within his arbitrary timeline, that’s on him and that’s ok.