(Closed) just a little vent ;)

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

Did you explain the part about the venue?  And the STD’s is a newer thing that wasn’t around when she got married. So not everyone will think that’s necessary.  It kind of sounds like she isn’t aware of what/how things need to be done in wedding planning.

Maybe you can ask her for some help in an area you think she’d do well.  Can she research favors?  Then she can focus her energies in something.  Also, maybe think about what you parts of planning you involve her with.  trying on wedding gowns?  Moms live for that.  Cake tasting?  Who doesn’t want to do that!  But some of the littler things maybe don’t bother her.  It sounds like it will stress both of you.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Mothers. That’s all I have to say about that. 🙂

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

My mom doesn’t get a lot of things either.  She had a backyard wedding in the 70s with sandwiches and beer.  But it seems like if I take the time to explain to her how things are today and why I am doing what I am doing she understands and then supports my decisions.

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