(Closed) Just a note…

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
374 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m sorry to hear that πŸ™ Best wishes love!

Post # 4
2476 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Awww ((hugs))!!  I think you are making the right move by taking a step back and re-evaluating your situation.  It’s very hard to be so bombarded with all this wedding and bridal stuff when you’re playing a waiting game.  I wish you all the best, and hope to see you back here very soon!  πŸ™‚

Post # 5
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I understand where you are coming from and I do think that you need to live your life for yourself!

However, I must say that we will miss you on the boards and I will miss you as my workout buddy but I understand that being on the boards makes you have engagement brain and forget everything else!

– Keep up the good work with the shred and if you want to pop on just to tell me how you are doing with every thing I would love to hear it!!!!!!!

I wish you all the best!!!!!

Post # 6
10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

((hugs)) I understand your reasons for leaving but I am sad :(…. Promise you’ll come back around to let us know how you are.  Remember that this board is more about weddings (those of us in this section aren’t even engaged :P) it’s about a group of women coming together to support and sometimes disagree but always have the other person’s best interest at heart.  We are here to cry with you laugh with you get mad with you and congratulate you… Sigh…. as far as the beau for him it’s just another day he probably doesn’t realize how much it means to you.  Or he may be afraid that you will pick out a 8 bajillion dollar ring and fall in love with it and he’ll have to break your heart because he can’t afford it.  Why not tell him that you don’t really want to go ring shopping and that you’ll send him pictures of styles that you’d like to see.  Then let him know that you haven’t tried any on so you don’t really know what anything looks like on and leave it at that.  Big Bummer for him changing the plans… ((hugs))

Post # 7
4385 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i’m so sorry πŸ™ we’ll miss you!! good luck sorting through things…

Post # 9
3979 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Aww.. I understand completely. I don’t want to discourage you from posting (or anyone, ever) but when you’re surrounded by wedding ideas & brides it can become completely overwhelming…

We’ll be here when you decide to come back πŸ™‚

Post # 10
11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

((Hugs)) we’ll all be here WHEN (not if) you come back. We’ll miss you, good luck!!

Post # 11
730 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Awww, I’m sorry. That must be so frustrating. I really think you’re doing the right thing by standing up for yourself, being strong, and not settling for him prioritizing football over you constantly.

Good luck getting everything sorted out…I hope a break from WB helps clear your head! ((hugs))

Post # 12
815 posts
Busy bee

I’m so sorry, you will be missed on the boards.  I wish I checked this last night because we would have had a lot to talk about.  I had a heart to heart with my Boyfriend or Best Friend and it didn’t go very well.  Needless to say, I am going to keep any WB postings light while I figure out what’s going on.  I hope things work themselves out!

Post # 13
2408 posts
Buzzing bee

aww, i’m sorry to hear that! but i wish you nothing but the best! ::hugs::

Post # 14
116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Good for you for sticking up for yourself and not waiting for something that might not be right.  The Hive will be here when you get back πŸ™‚

Post # 15
1701 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I just wanted to say that I hope you all get things figured out!!  I was in a situation for a very long time with my 28 year old “child” and know how horrible it is.  He proposed to me in 2005, but I don’t think he was really ready.  Every time I brought up picking a date, all he would say is “why so soon?” and other things to keep putting it off. And I had already asked my girls to be BMs and everything.  We were living together at the time, and this went on for 3 years!!!!!!  I finally moved out, we broke up and I gave the ring back and told him to give it back when he was serious. He ended up moving back in with me, then we bought a house, I have a NEW ring and a real, set in stone wedding date.  And he even talks about having kids soon, which before, he wanted to wait until he was like 40 for!  In my case anyway, when I quit putting up with his crap and lived for me – that’s when he realized what he was losing and it made him grow up – real quick. 

Just wanted to tell you this, so that even when he is acting this way, you know there is hope that things can change!

Regardless of what yall decide to do, I think things will work out in for the best in the end.  Good luck!!!

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