Post # 1
Hello to all,
I was just wondering if there are any other bees out there that have not been the center of attention but once engaged they became the focus and had some crazy backlash from a sibling that was use to being the center of attention?????
How did you handle it???
Post # 3
I haven’t been in that situation. Maybe it would help the sibling if you gave him/her all the extra attention you can. That way you won’t come off as a hog and maybe your sibling will feel a litle better. Good luck!
Post # 4
@kaydarling2012: I’d ignore it… this too shall pass! Sibling sounds pretty immature.
Post # 5
I sure am one of them Bees.. I have spent my life staying out of the front line, just me and my little group of friends. But once my now husband asked for my hand in marriage my life was flipped inside out… Everytime I came around family and friends that’s all we talked about.. My older sister loved being in the spot light and once it wasn’t on her anymore, she started trying too push her ideas into my wedding… Just so she could say she did it… Well before the big day me and her Had to sit down and talk because it was becoming to much to deal with…. So I think talking it out and letting them know how your feeling is a good way to try to deal with it.