- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Pretty pissed off right now and I just need to get it out…so no one has to read this if they don’t want to
My home church, I’ve been a member there for about 20 years, is where I planned to have my ceremony. About 2 months ago I reserved the church, deposit and all, for June 22 at 5 pm. I let my reception venue know that we will need the venue from 6-10. I get a call a few weeks ago that a non member is reserving the church the day of but it will not effect my time because they will do it in the morning so I wasn’t worried. I get a call today saying that the other bride would like the church at 3 so we would need to push our time up to 7 bc they’re service might take longer and they are worried of running to close to my time to get everything for my wedding set up.
I’m pissed that my home church would favor a non member, especially when I reserved the church first. I really don’t want to push my time up bc we are having a lot of older guests who won’t be able to make it through the reception. I really am at a lost here bc I wanted to get married in my home church, but now I just don’t think it’s possible. I’m such a wreck that I’m thinking about just canceling the wedding and going to e courthouse. I know that’s very irrational, but this news just kind of pushed me over the edge…