(Closed) Just another pathetic,waiting bee :( SIGH………

posted 12 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: He has had the ring for 2yrs in our bedroom safe but hasn't proposed,why?

    He's still not sure I'm the one

    His own insecurity issues

    He has no intention of proposing and is stringing me along

    He's digging his heels in and doing the opposite of what I want just because

  • Post # 17
    Member
    127 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    God! I hope you read this! I dated a cop for 2 years(long before I met Howard) and my girlfriends also dated cops… I just want to say from experience that they are some of the most unstable controlling self-centered men that I’ve ever met. I worked in law enforcement for 6 years and I have been around a lot of them so what I’m telling you is what I’ve experienced in my own life and from what my girlfriends have shared with me. You made several statements in you comments that made me feel sad for you just as a woman looking to be picked, but when I read, “then it was he felt my daughter wasn’t ready and wanted to wait til she’s 18 so he’s not legally responsible for her (pretty crappy)” my mouth just feel opened! He should be honored to be in her life and he should want to take care of you and her! She is a part of you and…. you know what…. I’m just going to leave this alone. But reading this, makes me love Howard just that much more.

    Post # 18
    Member
    183 posts
    Blushing bee

    I second mandiehoward… there were a number of red flags in your original post, but it was this statement that made me go “wtf?” If he wants to marry you he should be happy to share in all aspects of your life, which includes your daughter.

    I totally suggest keeping a backup plan ready and being firm about your timeline. He can’t keep up the excuses forever and when he sees you are serious about moving on, maybe he’ll get a wakeup call… or maybe he won’t and then you are better off without him anyway.

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