(Closed) Just another problem (ranting)

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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179 posts
Blushing bee

No, you are SO not wrong.

Why aren’t they asking the other brother to put his plans on hold like they asked you to!?

I’d be annoyed too.

*hugs* Sorry you have to deal with this.

Post # 4
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1944 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I agree! You are not wrong!

Post # 5
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10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

I don’t think you’re wrong, but I have heard of parents splitting the money down the middle like that, the oldest brother just basically lucked out since he asked first.  The fiancee of the middle brother should probably just get married after you, I definitely would hate to be put in the situation where my fsil resents me especially since she got engaged first (speaking of the newly engaged woman).  Good luck!! Can you scale anything back to make up for the 1700 downfall?

Post # 7
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2641 posts
Sugar bee

Ahh.  That kind of sucks.  I can only think that she doesn’t feel the 2nd brother should wait because he’s older, and maybe hsould be married first???  IDK>  But has Fi reminded her of these points, about the venue that she wanted and how you were counting on her money?

Maybe you can kindlytell her how if you don’t get that money, you’ll change it to the tacky venue, or that you’ll have to cut some of her family.

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