(Closed) Just blah about it all

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m in a similar situation. You’re still a year out, so maybe people will be more interested as you get closer.

You can also get your Fiance involved. I’ve been surprised by all my guy’s great ideas and interest. I have to tread lightly though – I can get obsessive and he can only handle so much wedding stuff at a time. So, I come on here!

Post # 4
1086 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Awww, I’m sorry. It really suckw hen other people aren’t interested, or don’t seem to be, when you are so excited. I would say find whoever IS excited and supportive and cling to them for support…even if it is your SO. I had my Fiance and my friend, and my mom towards the end. And I just only shared things with them since other people were not so helpful or understanding. I hope you cheer up, don’t let anyone discourage you from YOU being excited 🙂

Post # 5
230 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

People may get more excited as you draw closer to the date.  I know when I first got engaged, people were all excited, but because the wedding date was 2 1/2 years away their enthusiasm waned pretty quickly.  Now that I’m under a year away people are starting to ask for details again, offer assistance, and show interest in general.

Besides, even if your friends aren’t all that excited there are always plenty of busy Bees that are happy to boost your spirits and get excited with you about all things wedding!  <hugs>

Post # 6
404 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m in sort of the same boat. All of my friends are in different states, so I’m a little alone when it comes to details/dress shopping/planning. But I agree with @junabiona my DI has been super involved and has a lot of good ideas. And there is always the bee!

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