(Closed) Just broke up with the man I thought I was going to marry

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
3682 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I’m sorry it didn’t work out.  Was there any chance of you being able to move to his location so you could be closer to each other, or was that not an option until he showed more commitment?

Post # 3
208 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

(Hugs!!) How very strong of you to stand up for what you need for you and your child. I’m just so sorry, this must hurt 🙁


Many, many e-hugs to you

Post # 4
11373 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

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fitchick89:  aw bee, I’m so sorry. I’m glad you were able to stick to what was right for you, and I think that will bring you happiness in the future, but for now you’re heartbroken and that sucks. Big hugs. 

Post # 6
1739 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

I’m so sorry.  FWIW, I think you did the right thing — if you want to be married and he doesn’t, then ending it is the only way for you to move toward what you want.

How would you feel if he comes back and says he’s thought about it, and now has a plan?  

Post # 7
73 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

 Im so sorry. I hope you heal fast from this.

Post # 8
5080 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2014

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fitchick89:  Good for you for standing up for your and your children’s needs. It doesn’t sound like he was a bad guy, you guys just weren’t on the same page and he was not able to prioritize your relationship they way you needed him to. Timing is a bitch sometimes. 

Life goes on. Best wishes for your happiness. 

Post # 9
1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Let’s hope that was his wake up call! Hugs, everything will work out. Focus on making yourself happy now.

Post # 12
301 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I’m excited for you to see what comes next! Kudos to you for going with your gut!

Post # 14
608 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

I have nothing to say that will help. Here’s a gif of a puppy hugging a kitten.

Post # 15
2672 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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fitchick89:  I’m sorry things didn’t work out. But, it sounds like you did the right thing.  Be proud of yourself for knowing what you want and not settling. 

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