- 2 years ago
- Wedding: October 2017
Ok Bee’s I am here for a reality check, and to make sure I have crossed over into Bridezilla territory. My Fiance has 4 groomsmen, 2 are his friends, 1 is his brother, and 1 is my childhood friend. We are now 38 days from our wedding (eek! so excited!) and at my FI’s bachelor party, he checked in with his groomsmen to make sure they all had gotten their clothing for the wedding.
When Fiance picked out his suit, he found a pair of matching pants and a classic white shirt, and we will be providing a tie. My Fiance and I sent all of the info on where to buy the pants and shirt (Macy’s) and let them know that there was a sale going on, so the outfit would be at a steep discount if they ordered within the next week. Overall, without discounts, the outfit was less than $100. This was in July.
Here we are, 38 days out, and 2 groomsmen still have not gotten their outfits! Of the two groomsmen who have gotten the outfits, both live out of town. My Fiance reminded both of them that they needed to get their outfits ASAP. Well, here is the issue. Both of these groomsmen are the 2 that are the hardest to get ahold of, 1 is my friend, the other is my FI’s friend.
I am starting to get a little worried now. My Fiance is calling his friend today and telling him he needs to get his outfit now, as we dont want to risk there not being his size and they need to order it in. My friend, on the other hand, I am going to talk to. He works nights, so I will need to text him to tell him to get his outfit ASAP.
I want to avoid being a Bridezilla, but WHY COULD THEY HAVE NOT GOTTEN THIS WHEN WE SENT THE INFO????? I have been a very chill and understanding bride up until now. I made sure that we chose low cost clothing items so that being a groomsmen would not be a burden to anyone. I also made sure that it was an accessible location to get the clothes, all groomsmen live within 10 minutes of a Macy’s.
I know our wedding doesnt matter as much to anyone else, but come on, common courtesy!
Ok, now to my question, how do I talk to my friend to remind him yet again to get his clothes? I dont want to be a crazy bride, but come on!