(Closed) Just called off my wedding and am dying inside

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@kindercare:  Obviously I know nothing about your relationship, but it sounds like you made a good decision. Someone trying to exercise that much control over you (with the need to always be right no matter what the circumstance) can never love you like you deserve. You are protecting your future and sacrificing right now for what will be so much better later on.

Time to find someone who treats you like a partner, not a client 🙂

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

*hug*   It sounds like you made a wise decision and it’ll just take time to heal.  Focus on yourself!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

So sorry you having to go through this. It sounds to me that you made the right choice for YOU!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Good for you. He sounds selfish, and I am glad that you realized this before marrying him. A prenup should be written so that both parties are mutually satisfied not just one. Goodluck to you in the future. Lots of hugs!!!!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

((hugs)) 

Best of luck moving forward, and you did the right thing by standing up for yourself.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Wow I’m so sorry! It sounds like you truly made the best decision and good for you for following what you knew was right. Chin up, it will get better and will come out of the other side of this Stronger and wiser and ready for a relationship with a man that truly madly deeply no matter what loves you which is what you deserve!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

aw I am so sorry this has happened to you, but you made the right choice, now you can start fresh and eventually marry the man you are supposed to be with who will love you unconditionally like you deserve..better you figure it out now rather than ten years down the road and a couple of kids later.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. On the upside, breaking an engagement is FAR easier than going through a divorce.

Sending good thoughts your way!

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Oh my gosh, judging by only what you wrote, seems like you made a wise decision…not many girls can do what you did.  You’re amazing! Go you!

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@kindercare:  i am so sorry that you are going through this.  by reading your post, you have made the right decision.  he sounds far too controlling.  it is an eye opener when you realize that you are apologizing for not being wrong.  this really is for the best.  it takes a strong woman to recognize this and take action.  good for you.

are you living together now?  do you still have to separate your belongings and everything.  that is not easy.   if he is that controlling, do you feel in danger in any way or was this amicable?  do you have a friend or family member to be there with you?

 

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@kindercare:  I’m so sorry about you having to break off your engagment.  Just reading this and have little facts, I feel as if you made the right decision.  (hugs) Please stay strong.

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m so so sorry that you’re having to go through this but I hope this is a hardest part and that it just gets better from here. Stay strong.

Post # 15
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661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

You did an amazing thing! Good for you! It takes strength, courage, integrity, abd EVERYTHING GOOD to do what you did. As Mr. Burns on Simpsons would say, “Excelsior to you!”

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I can’t imagine how you’re feeling, but as the other ladies said, it sounds like you made a good decision for YOU. One day you’ll be able to look back with peace on the decision and you’ll be proud of yourself. Good luck!

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