(Closed) Just curious, after reading this description would YOU marry this guy?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
1348 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Oh geeze… he sounds awful. 

I would run so far away… so very far. 

Post # 18
1230 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Sounds like a bad situation to me. There is no way I would be marrying him. Hopefully she doesn’t.

Post # 19
112 posts
Blushing bee

That sounds more than a little off. It sounds extremely unhealthy! 

Post # 20
781 posts
Busy bee

@Galang_Gyal:  haha um no. Not only would I not date/marry him, it sounds like he needs a swift kick in the d!€k. 

Post # 21
281 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Well, he sounds awful.

Good news is that she CAN’T marry him. He’s already married.

Post # 22
11736 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Galang_Gyal:  I wouldn’t, but to teach their own. luckiily he is still married to someone else so htey can’t even get married right now. Maybe she’ll come around and see the light before it’s too late.

Post # 25
1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

If she does marry him, please keep up a friendship with her and let her know you are a safe place to run to.

Post # 28
2942 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

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@Galang_Gyal:  I had a friend marry a guy who did the same thing with money (she had to check in for every dime, and the kicker was she was the only one in the relationship working)  We didn’t know about it until after they broke up.  She just thought it was normal… wierd how our defintions of normal are definded by the people we are with.

Post # 29
985 posts
Busy bee

@Galang_Gyal:  i’d be lying if i didnt say we all havent at least overlooked a few of our partners shortcomings but she is outright BLIND.

he needs to be put in his place and she needs to get her life back before he takes even more. 

Post # 30
2807 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

how is she gonna marry him when he’s already legally married to someone else?

also, she needs to run away as fast and as far as she possibly can.

Post # 31
11505 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

As many of you know, I am someone who believes in God, who believes that He absolutely can — and does — speak to people who seek to hear from Him through the truth found in His Word and through other Biblically legitimate  means, and who believes in the Biblical model of marriage as described in Scripture in Ephesians 5.

And, based upon everything you’ve described, I would run as fast as I could, metaphorically speaking, to get away from this guy.

He sounds as if he is cold, calculating, controlling, manipulative, arrogant, insensitive, harsh, spiritually deceived, and completely and off-base on so many levels.  I could go on and on as to all of the reasons these things are major, major, MAJOR red flags.

What does your friend believe about this relationship?

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