(Closed) Just curious, after reading this description would YOU marry this guy?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
9126 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

Hell no.  My #1 dealbreaker is a partner who is controlling.  This sounds incredibly unhealthy and like the stereotypical beginning of an abusive relationship.

Post # 33
1263 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@Galang_Gyal:  He is already a bit emotionally abusive, I think will be become a lot more so after they are married, and quite possibly physically abusive too. I bet he will make her stop working, isolate her from everyone she knows (he’s already doing this, because “he doesn’t like them”), cut off her resources so she is dependent on him, and keep her from leaving even when her life is total shit.  

Very scary to see this happening on this side of things.

Post # 34
2584 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

No, I absolutely would not. I wouldn’t have even gotten far enough in this relationship to be engaged.

Post # 37
1246 posts
Bumble bee

She is probably already afraid of him, if she feels the need to ask for permission concerning her food!

WOAH: Your updates are scary! 

Post # 38
7976 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

What the ****?

Sorry to sound so extreme, but it sounds like this relationship is going to end in one of two ways… either involving the police, or involving the coroner.

Post # 39
719 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

This guy is obviously not a healthy person to be in a relationship with, and I’m a bit surprised that he’s such good friends with your DH. Isn’t that awkward for him? Have you told him how you feel?

Anyway, to answer your actualy question, no no no no and NO. I believe that God brings people into our lives, honestly – but not to control us, not to refuse to let us eat when we are hungry, not to rule our lives with an iron fist. No.

Truthfully, this guy sounds dangerous.

Post # 40
12244 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Uff. I have BEEN in that relationship, and it ended with me getting kocked around on a regular basis.

Unfortunately, as someone who has been there, I can pretty much promise that she not only doesn’t see the signs, but that she WON’T see them until well after she leaves.

Post # 41
9966 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Galang_Gyal:  It’s not your imagination, something is seriously off with this guy.

Post # 42
643 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

WTF?! Does this guy have a golden dick that makes the angels sing or something??!?! 

Move her in with them?!!?!?! Maybe they make queen size bunk beds!! They can have the top, his parents can have the bottom.

I hope she comes to her senses ASAP.

Post # 45
611 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Galang_Gyal:  every relationship is different

she stuck it out and left someone else for him maybe because she likes being the submissive in this relationship…(think fifty shades of grey)

Post # 46
2188 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

Wow he’s a douchebag and she needs to run VERY far and VERY fast. He sounds a lot like my ex husband.ugh.

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