(Closed) Just curious–how much money did you receive?

posted 8 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: How much money were you gifted and how many people were invited?
    $0-100 : (7 votes)
    1 %
    $100-500 : (14 votes)
    3 %
    $500-1000 : (27 votes)
    5 %
    $1000-2000 : (45 votes)
    8 %
    $2000+ : (205 votes)
    38 %
    -100 guests : (100 votes)
    18 %
    100-150 guests : (94 votes)
    17 %
    150-200 guests : (32 votes)
    6 %
    200-250 guests : (21 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 32
    81 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    My brother received 23k and had 150 guests

    Post # 33
    4160 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We had 90 guests (10 of those were children) and received about $12,000 plus gifts.

    Post # 34
    9053 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We had 80 guests and received just over $5000 in cash and gift cards. 

    Post # 36
    226 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2007

    Most of our guests gave us cash gifts because that’s the norm in Chinese weddings so get more than $2000 & we had almost 200 guests.

    Post # 37
    38 posts
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @Margaritachka: Wow! 52k?! That is incredible!! I want to invite your guests to my wedding! haha. 

    Post # 38
    74 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Some peoples guests were VERY generous! That’s wonderful 🙂  It is a bit of a nice reminder as I sit here stressing over our budget. I know better than to bank on receiving a certain amount of money in gifts, but it is good to know that many people’s costs were partially offset by the generosity of their friends and family!

    Post # 39
    633 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Wow..so much generosity!

    Post # 40
    802 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    We had about 100 guests, and got about 1300 cash, probably 1000 gift cards. Like a PP mentioned I think it’s a southern thing to not give cash gifts. I got a lot of physical gifts though. Not to mention like 15 people didn’t even bring a card, and my family (extended) isn’t too high up on the financial ladder.

    Post # 41
    4464 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    We got about $4,000. We invited about 350 and 150 came to the wedding, approx.

    Post # 42
    2424 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    My mom keeps telling me to expect to get like $10K in checks, my wedding hasn’t happened yet so we will see. We will have 130 people there, so considering $100 pp is pretty normal for a wedding gift in my region, it may very well happen!

    Post # 44
    383 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    This is a really interesting post! We are having 450-500 guests so I’m interested to see what will happen with us, lol. In our culture (West African) it is customary to actually spray the money on the couple as they are dancing throughout the night, as opposed to putting it in envelopes or cards. So Fiance and I are really interested to see what happens. I had a cousin who got 30k at her wedding with around 350 guests.

    Post # 45
    340 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    This is BLOWING MY MIND!

    I must be ignorant but why would all your guests give money? Is this a tradition? All that I’ve ever heard about is buying gifts off gift registry. (I live in the South) Is this primarily for wealthier people?

    Excuse me if I sound clueless, I’m just curious.

    Post # 46
    788 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @sweetdee522:  I think its both cultural and regional. In Toronto, most couples have registries but also can expect to receive cards with cash or cheques. That being said, in my culture (Guyanese) its pretty much standard that you give money and not have a registry.

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